Lets say im at the mall and i see a couple of girls and one or so are good looking, how am i supose to jus go up and talk to them? what am i suposed to say when i go up to them? .....Girls what do u think of guys that do that n what do they say to u? what are things guys could say to you when they come up to you so you wouldnt shoot them down right away?
2006-09-11 17:30:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your by yourself then don't do it. If your in a group, then you can approach them and have fun. Otherwise, i suggest if you don't know any of the girls in that group you shouldnt approach them for no reason unless its in a bar.
2006-09-11 17:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by JO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start with a hello and let them know that you think they're cute and you want to get to know them. If you're honest and not freaking out you'll have no problem. No one has 100% success, that's just the way it goes.
The most important thing is making friends. If you focus on getting to know the girl first, you'll be better off in the end than if you try to "hook up" with every cute girl you see.
And if she's not interested in you, then no hard feelings, just find someone who is, don't get too hurt by it.
2006-09-12 00:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tomis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a group of girls who would fit into your group (your clothing style, etc and whatnot) 'cos than you may have more in common.
I walk up to Native ppl and just talk about anything 'cos it's easier to get to know each other, a connection is there b/c our clothing style is similiar as well as attitude so conversations are easier.
Don't be eager either, stay cool. Any guy who walks up to me with that look on his face won't get my attention. I'd rather ignore him than talk to him. If he's cool, yet friendly. I'll hang out with him.
2006-09-12 00:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHATEVER you do, dont go to these forums where
Females are giving you advice. You will end up confused and angry after they advise you on how to be "sweet" etc.
which will put you right in the "nice guy" camp. ....and alone.
Find a male site with advice from guys such as
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/seduction_dating/
2006-09-12 00:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think ur should keep eye contact with them follow then but sneaky u know dont make it to obiouse that ur all over them and when u get close to then tell they hey i think ur really pretty whats ur name? if she tells u her name just tell him i would like to get to know u if thats ok with u? and then they probley smile and stuff and then ask may i have ur number dont be all dang girl ur looking fine whats ur number and stuff cuz they would throw u off.. so be respectfull about it n if they dont want to then try somewhere else they lost there chance getting to know a great guy...Good Luck
2006-09-12 00:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to play by the dating rules read some dating tips and articles on this site to help you with it
2006-09-12 00:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi..... see if she says anything back if not then she obviously doesn't like u or is already taken.....
2006-09-12 00:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by cowpie1994 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi----be yourself==be polite
2006-09-12 00:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
strap on your balls, and just introduce yourself
2006-09-12 00:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by sluijs01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a mute?
2006-09-12 00:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋