Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

okay, so my bf and i are having problems we like never get to see eachother anymore becuase hes at school all day getting his GED and i'm working my *** off at work since day one we've been going out...
hes 23 i'm 20 i'll be turning 21 in oct. , he barley calls me anymore , and when we both have a day off its like he doesn't want to hang out... i don't feel like he loves me anymore and i kind of want to move on but at the same time i want to just let his schooling slide and my work not get the best of us , but i feel like he just doens't give a crap about me anymore and hes always hanging around this girl that is 17 , i know she likes him and i have a feeling hes seeing her on the side since they live right next to eachother , me i live like 10 mins away....
how can i tell him its over and give him back the promise ring without me getting all depressed and emotional again ,i don't want to let this affect my work , or my 21st birthday coming up...

i need all the help and advice PLEASE!

2006-09-11 17:14:39 · 22 answers · asked by Jenn 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my husband for 5 yrs.now we seem distant. i am no longer atracted to him.i mean i love him but not that way.we have 3 kids togeather.and i do not know what to do should i stay or should i go?

2006-09-11 17:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Basically I have been seeing this girl for the entire summer and everything had been going great untill tonight she decided to tell me that she loves me, how ever she doenst feel she loves me as much as i love her so thats unfair and she doenst want to go out any more.... this totally confused me and she told me she wants to stop seeing eachother and just be friends... How ever she still has feelings for me now what i am wondering is how can i convince her that we should still see eachother, or what should i do to get back with her?

2006-09-11 17:13:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please, dont pay attention to the question, Its just an attention grabber. Sorry.

If you look at my past questionsss (lol) You will get a better insight at this.
I'm in high school...
I finally got the courage to talk to this girl I like at school and things are going pretty smooth right now. But I dont know how to ask her out, Should I say sweet things like: "I think you are really beautiful and I was wondering if you will like to go to the movies with me"
Or is this too corny and will she laugh at me.

Thank you very much for your contribution.

2006-09-11 17:13:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i guy i dated for a few months got me two months pregnat.and i just figuered out he is married with two beautiful twin boys.so how do i tell i wife and how do i brake up with him?

2006-09-11 17:12:42 · 8 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Every time it happens, I'm totally devastated. I would like to experience love while I'm still young please God. Thanks.

2006-09-11 17:12:12 · 18 answers · asked by Gen Xer 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 17:11:55 · 16 answers · asked by >>monkey 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years we live together and I would like to get married but I don't know if he will ever ask me.

2006-09-11 17:11:24 · 6 answers · asked by s_ezlon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Very shy and quiet girl. Flirts a bit. Smiles alot when I see her. I've caught her looking at me at lunch. I'm taking her to homecoming. I've been told she'll try to not talk to me in the hallway to kinda bug me/play with my head. Tonight, one of my friends found out that she doesn't like me. Or at least, according to whoever told her. Whats the sense in her acting how she acts, and not liking me? Is her friend just covering for her? Thanks.

2006-09-11 17:10:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 17:09:04 · 7 answers · asked by Bashazza 2 in Weddings

theres this gurl i like and we used 2 talk all the time but now whenever we try 2 talk about there's nothing 2 talk about. there's just a silence. i need a conversation starter. so even if we do get a conversation starter its hard 2 change subjects. its when we're finished discussing a topic is when the silence comes. plz help.

2006-09-11 17:08:39 · 9 answers · asked by vrhs_8603 1 in Singles & Dating

looking for someone who knows area well, as well as the people around the county

2006-09-11 17:07:57 · 4 answers · asked by eskimoes27 1 in Friends

Would this be caleld premarital sex still? If my girlfriend and I were to fall deeply in love with each other and plan to live the rest of our lives together and I got 2 kids with her but the good thing is that I am still with her and supporting our 2 childs even though we are not officially married. And plus, I know the purpose of marrying someone is to join two souls into one but you can do that without marrying? Is that still called pre-marital sex if you were to have sex with your girlfriend but still stay loyal to her and act like you are a married couple and do what a dad does???

2006-09-11 17:07:50 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am thinking about leaving my son's father and wanted to know kinda what to expect in support. It's a lose lose relationship and we can't get along.

2006-09-11 17:07:42 · 2 answers · asked by chris T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been friends with this guy since elementary days he was my first boyfriend but we broke up and stayed friends he left the state to go to colledge i had a baby he came back got married the marriage didn't work out after three years of not seeing him he find me we talk he come move with me we still together 4 years later and have a baby but he still married

2006-09-11 17:07:29 · 12 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can I be a fun person and not just boring? Guys say I look fun but when I am on a date it is like I freeze up. How can I laugh and have a good time with them?

2006-09-11 17:06:23 · 16 answers · asked by C S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 17:04:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what the hell was he trying to do?

okay, here's my story. I went to my friend's birthday party. I got really drunk and my best friend, brian, sent me home. he put me on my bed and as I could remember him unbuttoning my shirt and kissed me on my neck. I pushed him away and said "what do u doin'?". he said he liked me and was sorry. he then left.
The next morning, I woke up, 3 buttons of my shirt were in fact undone. I asked my roommates if they saw him leaving that night. they said yes. was he trying to rape / molest me? wtf! what should I do?

2006-09-11 17:04:25 · 46 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

I want a cool idea for a costume for my 2 year old girl. Where we live it is a 90 percent chance it might be cold, 50 percent chance there might be snow. I think I might dress up as well so let the ideas roll in.

2006-09-11 17:04:03 · 11 answers · asked by curiosity 2 in Family

About 5 years ago my aunt was married had two kids. well her husband decided to get a computer. My aunt was on it a lot , then she met some one on the net talked to him for a few months and then one day said she was goin to bingo but never came home. She ended up goin to illinois to meet the guy. She then decided to live with him.. so she left her kids and husband for this man who has 3 kids of his own. Her daughters have for given her and some of my family but other family member's are still upset at her and are not really talking to her anymore. Should they forgive her and jus move on.. or what?

2006-09-11 17:03:10 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a family member that isn't taking care of her daughter, if the state were to put the children in foster care, would they be willing to let me keep one of the three children if I am single and working full-time? I know I could give the child the love and nourishment she needs, but I would be afraid of splitting the sisters up and there is no way I could not work to support us. Does the state help out if you foster a child? I am not dating anyone, nor am I married, so it would only be me taking care of her.

2006-09-11 17:02:30 · 7 answers · asked by royal_crown78 2 in Family

explain, please, thanks.

2006-09-11 17:02:27 · 34 answers · asked by plsplsos 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 26 and I have a 2 year old daughter. I'm mostly friendly with her dad who is 2 years younger than me. We're not together, though it sometimes feels that way. I see him almost everyday. He watches our daughter while I go to school at night and sometimes watches her on the weekend so I can have me time. We argue constantly about the stupidest things, he even fights me on watching on daughter a lot of times. I try to reason with him, but I can't always get through to him. Then there is this other guy whos ALOT older than me(17 yrs older). Age doesn't matter to me, but he is a teacher at my school. I know he likes me too, but we can't act on it. He's single no kids. I like him very much and we have so much in common. I'm just torn between my baby's dad and this older man. I know who I want, but is it right to leave my daughter's daddy behind(even though he'd always be in her life)? This has been tearing me up. help!

2006-09-11 17:02:08 · 4 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-11 17:01:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-11 17:01:09 · 9 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Family

there is this guy that i like @ 1st i thought that he was just 1 yr younger than me but i just found out that he is actually 2 yrs younger than me. although thats an "issue" i still like him. he has been showing signs that he might be interested but i havnt hanged out wit him 4 about 3-5 days cuz he was sick. all this time (2 months) ive waited 4 him. i still like but ive kinda gottn tired of waiting i asked his cousin and she told me that i shuld wait everybody thinks we are going out even his cousins DAD!. im very confused cuz there are other people that flirt wit me. i kinda wanna go wit the flow but then theres my crush.... wat do u guys think i shuld do?

2006-09-11 17:00:26 · 11 answers · asked by basketgirlteen13 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 16:59:59 · 1 answers · asked by colly 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok if you click on my picture and go to my "guy problem" question and read the story of me and this guy and tell me how i should act around him and tell me why i love him even though i he treats me like CRAP!!

2006-09-11 16:59:12 · 19 answers · asked by Theater freak 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 16:59:11 · 15 answers · asked by Gen Xer 1 in Singles & Dating

I have extreme trust issues because of my ex cheating on me, Ive been together with my boyfriend for 6 months, and Im trying very hard to trust him, and not get jealous.
But on friday night he went out with the boys (which he always does, and Im not invited) and told me he was dancing (which he doesnt do) and had heaps of girls dancing around him, and that he stayed at his mates house, and 2 chicks that are friends with his mate are staying there, one likes him, and the other told him he was hot.
I was upset about all of this. Do I have a right to be upset. Or am I being too jealous? And how do I explain it to him that this upsets me, without him getting angry and just telling me I have to stop being jealous all the time.

2006-09-11 16:58:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships