Ok if you click on my picture and go to my "guy problem" question and read the story of me and this guy and tell me how i should act around him and tell me why i love him even though i he treats me like CRAP!!
2006-09-11 16:59:12 · 19 answers · asked by Theater freak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am still growing up and he treats me fine.
2006-09-11 17:01:44 · update #1
he not even my boyfriend....and also like he just other people say he likes me so he treats me like that! And i dont like abuse thats why im asking your guys opionion.
2006-09-11 17:04:24 · update #2
i think you guys are right because all my friends have had bf and me being only 14 havent had one yet and i know im not that old so its not that unusal. so i feel like the first guy who shows interest in me i like him
2006-09-11 17:07:59 · update #3
Well, hon...its sounds like you have a low self esteem and you need to become stronger. Many men make a woman feel stupid and worthless because that empowers them to hold you. You see, then you start believing you are worthless and do not deserve better so you will not leave.
Once you feel worthless you stay with the man because you think no one else would want you. It is a very manipulative move, but I find many men do it. Also, it is easier staying with an abuser because you expect all men to act that way. This is call "domestic/mental "abuse and he is not willing to get help, you need to get help to feel better enough about self to leave.
2006-09-11 17:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by bunnylatte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because your are trying to find acceptance or because you have low self esteem and you think thats the best you can do. I wonder if you frwe up in a broken home? Listen, dont let this creep treat you this way, even though you think that he likes you, you are worth better than this creep. Your not happy and you dont love him, YOur just scared that nobody else will like you.
2006-09-11 17:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIFE IS TOO SHORT for this crap! NOONE should TELL YOU how you are suppose to act unless it's your parents teaching you life lessons. Don't hold your worthiness Or your happiness on just this one guy! It's all about respect...50/50! You've got plenty of time to mature before the right one comes along. Don't let him ruin your attitude...so if you are questioning your feelings now then you are trying to protect yourself...Good for you.
Dust yourself off and try again! Good luck!
2006-09-11 17:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by vikingsonsltw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing, not being up my self, but i could of had most guys, but for some reason i just seemed to be attracted to him (cocky attitude)and he use to treat me like crap too.
i finally gave up and realised i am better then that and enough is enough, it did seem really hard at the time, but its been about a year now, i have got a new boy and just laugh about how messed up i was for letting anyone treat me like that.
2006-09-11 17:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by olivia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause your a fool in love,It's time to wake up from this nightmare.There is more to life than being dogged out by the true jerk your with.If you don't do something to stop him,he's going to hurt you.What you have is not love,your being emotionally abused.
2006-09-11 17:06:02 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should slowly start seeing other people and inch away from him, when you see how much better other guys treat you you will see him for what he really is, and you will leave with no problem.
2006-09-11 17:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by LETICIA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard but u should try to leave him, its hard but u will look back in the past and will see how stupid of u it was to let someone treat u like that, u can seriuosly get better....all u need is to realize thats no way to treat a girl!!!
2006-09-11 17:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by hephaistion_hek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a masochist and like the abuse, feeling that you somehow deserve to be treated this way. You need therapy. It's that simple.
2006-09-11 17:01:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you hit you head while a baby? because I do beleive you have been brain damage.. You need to wise up!!! that is not love is being afraid, properly you think you don't have what it takes to get a next man --- and I do say MAN not a boy
2006-09-11 17:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you're only 14, you don't know what real love is at that age. Just move onto another guy and you will soon realise it was only lust.
2006-09-11 17:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by Aussie Chick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋