How can I be a fun person and not just boring? Guys say I look fun but when I am on a date it is like I freeze up. How can I laugh and have a good time with them?
2006-09-11 17:06:23 · 16 answers · asked by C S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're just starting to date maybe you're putting too much pressure on yourself. go out w/ a guy you're interested in w/ a larger group and once you're more comfortable around him move on to an actual date. i'm the opposite in that i do better in small groups of people than in large groups where i come off as more introverted, we all have our quirks but anyone can be fun and entertaining once they've loosened up, and i'm not talking about drinking.
2006-09-11 17:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by whatwhatwhat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe starting off with one-on-one dating isn't for you. Try going out with your friends and a guy you want to date in a group. That way your nerves might relax because there are other people around and you can be yourself without freezing up.
2006-09-11 17:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Funny Bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax.. be yourself. Whether that be a fun person or a boring person, being yourself is the most important thing. Sounds like you get nervous and tense on a date. Just try to relax and think to yourself that this person is wanting to be your friend. If you can't be who you really are, then you really don't want to be friends with that person. You should never compromise who you are.
2006-09-11 17:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by ami mena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you like? Hook up with someone who likes the same things as you. Something from a previous relationship might be putting a stumbling block in your growth. We sometimes have to let go to move on. Or maybe you just haven't found the right one yet. The way I look at life, if someone doesn't like you for who you are, then they are not going to be able to be your other half. You just keep being you, and you will find happiness.
2006-09-11 17:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by liquidjesus23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, whatever u consider funny jus laugh if theres something ud do or wanna do if u were by urself then do it when ur with them, if u look fun then be yourself n u will be fun
2006-09-11 17:11:20 · answer #5 · answered by The King 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know. I worry about being boring myself cause I'm shy. I guess you just have to push past your shyness. If you don't, you'll never be able to have fun with them.
2006-09-11 17:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by New mommy 2010! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax, and pretend that it's not really a date, and more of just hanging out. Although somehow still keep in mind that it's a date, just don't think about it the entire time.
2006-09-11 17:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by Chiapet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something that is fun. Instead of going to dinner and a movie. Go do something that you enjoy and have fun with.
2006-09-11 17:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by B Rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to become happy and confident with yourself first.
Focus on your positives- go on dates but treat them as mini assignments - try new conversations ect.
Have fun
Good luck
2006-09-11 17:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by Andrew1380 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be free be yourself some people just arent made to be a fun person
2006-09-11 17:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋