well i guy i dated for a few months got me two months pregnat.and i just figuered out he is married with two beautiful twin boys.so how do i tell i wife and how do i brake up with him?
2006-09-11 17:12:42 · 8 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel for you girl, but this pain should not be all yours to handle.
Make it very clear to him that he lied to you and the two of you are done - forever. He will have to do his part to be responsible, aka child support and so forth. If he isn't going to help you, then get the proper authorities involved.
I'd also tell him that he can tell his wife about the affair or you can. Give him the chance to come clean himself and mention everything important to her, but I would insist on being there when he does. Because you don't want him to make up some grand story and maybe his wife will see you as the seducing mistress of this entire thing. It's stupid but women are like that sometimes.
See if he's going to take any responsibility for this at all because this will determine what most of his future behavior will probably be like as well. Make sure to get some legal advice to know how to take care of yourself from that angle as well.
*Hugs* Best of thoughts to you, dear. It's going to be a hard road for a long time, but remember your friends for support and try to keep your determination and spirit up the best you can.
2006-09-11 17:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lady_Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you needed to do is keep your legs closed until you find more thing out about your boyfriends. Right now you are S.O.L. If you tell his wife you will destroy her and his two boys, do they deserve that? It's not right what he did but it take two to screw and you are just as much if not more to blame for this problem. If you was not so easy he may not have went for it. Talk to him and come to a agreement that both of you can live with. Don't be so damn easy on the next one.
2006-09-12 00:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you call and tell his wife, I think it will be taken care of. Please don't feel guilty or bad, you didn't know. The guy is a jerk of the first kind; first, by cheating on his wife, and second, by not telling you he was married. You are not to blame. Just make sure that you get child support from him when your baby is born. I hope this helps.
2006-09-12 00:41:34 · answer #3 · answered by organic gardener 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's bastard who made you pregnant should feel guilty and bad, not you! Two choices, abort the baby and leave him. Keep the baby, be a un-wed mother and leave him.
2006-09-12 00:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow that really sucks....I would diffidently say something to him! Then tells his wife and tell her that you are sorry that you didn't know. I don't see any reason why you should stay with him!
2006-09-12 00:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by freaking_airhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have his home number? If so, call her and tell her...That should solve both of your problems.
2006-09-12 00:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study Bible
2006-09-12 00:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by C boyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abort tomorrow or " Hey, where is that check you mailed last week?" or " He wont see his child, your honor."
2006-09-12 00:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋