i was dating this girl for 6 months, then suddenly she stops ansering my calls, my e-mails... then i just recieved an e-mail saying that there's someone else in her life, and that she's sorry but it's over... i feel really bad..i don't know what to do, i'll see her tomorrow at class, and everyday!!!, i don't know how to act know... what am i supposed to do? i can't sto thinking about her!! someone please help!!!
2006-09-11 17:19:41 · 29 answers · asked by Adrian B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are more important things to worry yourself over this is just a stepping stone in life. you get into relationships someone breaks someones heart it happens. you will eventually find someone else and it may happen again and again until and sometimes after the one you find that you end up marrying. But in the end you have to learn from all relationships whether they are relationships of love or friends it doesn't matter you just need to learn from them to truly benefit such as obviously she never really liked you as much as you liked her and if she would have stayed with you then you may have been attached when the woman of your dreams walked in I don't want to waste my life with the wrong person and neither should you so technically she did you a favor. as for you seeing her in class you don't have to talk to her it will just make it harder just move on you will find someone better than her and that person will make you happy.
2006-09-11 17:29:34 · answer #1 · answered by simplehoneylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am feeling sad to know abt u. She didn't do good with u. She dumped u for another guy. Therz no point thinking of this girl. Come on ur a guy, move on. There are many nice girls out there. U'll definitely get a nice girl who will be there for u whenever needed. Have patience. The girl will soon arrive. Till then, be with ur friends, spend time with ur family, cousins, take upon new hobbies. Learn something new. Improve urself in some other way. Do one such thing that will be praised by others. Concentrate on ur studies/job etc.
The girl has said off to u, no point in looking back, u too move on like her.
Good Luck Buddy!
Good Bye & I hope u have a nice day.
2006-09-12 00:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by ashlesha19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that girl is a B****! Nobody deserves to be treated that way. And I'm sorry that it happened you you. All I can say is try and pretend it never happened... treat her like the best friend you ever had when your around her. It will make her feel bad. And that she deserves. Revenge is not the answer but it will make you feel better about it for a while. Try not to think about it when your alone.. dont listen to music that you would if you were with her. Meet new people at school. Make new friends that way your not alone. Good Luck Hope All Goes Well.. and God Bless
2006-09-12 00:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by ashley65@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had something very similar happen years ago.If all of a sudden there is someone else in her life now, most likely she has also been with that person for awhile. It's usually not likely that all of a sudden there is someone else most of the time.I got over it by telling myself that it was just a sign that you weren't meant to be together and if after 6 months she does this to you, be thankful it wasn't a year or more or you had gotten married or something like that. You deserve someone better and just have to start looking for that person. People come into our lives for a reason. They also leave out of our lives for a reason also. Now it is up to you to figure out the reason she was in yours and gone now. Just what all have you learned from your time with her, what can you use from that relationship for your next one to make that one better,etc.It is always hard, but sometimes you just have to pick yourself back up and move on to bigger and better things but also remember your past because it can help you in the future! If this makes any sense to you?I am just trying to let you know what has helped me in the past in circumstances like this. Hope it helps some at least and good luck in the future!Sometimes you just have to as they say, kiss alot of frogs before you find your prince! (Or in this case,Princess!)
2006-09-12 00:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adrian,
Hey, sorry for what happened to you. That so sucks when someone you're dating doesnt even have the decency to let you know what's up. But when someone just stops writing you and calling all of a sudden, that's usually a big sign. Unless she has a fever or is in the hospital, just take it in the future if this happens again as the person saying that they want out....some people are just weak like that.
Regarding handing seein her in class. Your feelings are totally normal...anger, humiliated, confused, more anger, curious... It just sucks all around. But, just go with it....meaning let yourself feel what you feel...if you feel a sudden urge to go up to her and ask whats up then do so...if you feel like crying....then do so....you may feel alot of stuff.... Just dont suppress your feelings cause then it will effect other areas of your life, like your other friends or school work or home life.
I would want to know what's up....I would probably go and ask her why she didnt want to tell you face to face. She may have not wanted to hurt you or she could be just selfish. But whatever the case....she has NOT shown you basic respect and that is way uncool. So let your feeling be as they are.....let them come and let them go...and in time your feelings will eventually get all balanced out..
Best of luck to you dear....sorry about it all. Hope you find a sweet girl who will respect you and care about you too!
I once heard someone tell me...."Dont waste your time on someone who donsnt waste their time on you.".....Think about that for a minute.
See ya later
Hope I was of some help
Annette
2006-09-12 00:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by annette s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she played you and I hope that you will feel better soon. I don't know if she had an x that came back or what but she should have been in communication with you. It was immature of her how she handled this, I hope in time you will see that you deserve better. Good luck and I hope you feel better soon and remember when people make it all about them then it's a nice way of saying there is someone much much better out there~
2006-09-12 00:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For whatever reason, she doesn't dig you anymore. She sounds weak, insecure and pathetic - but whatever the reason (don't dwell, really there's no answer that will make you feel better). Know that she wasn't "the one" for you. Take a step back and see her for what she truly is (skank!) and know that you are the bigger person. Thank god you found out her true nature before marrying and having 32 kids with her - damn - it's pratically a gift!Be polite. Act like she never mattered to you. And, oh - by the way - when she tries to worm her way back into your heart - don't you dare take her back. Find yourself someone who treats you with kindness & respect. You deserve it.
2006-09-12 00:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by lalo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be mean or anything but it happens. Everybody at one point in thier life gets thier hearts broke by somebody. You deserve better than that so hold your head high and move on with your life. She is the one losing out here. She has lost a great guy and she will realize that in time.
2006-09-12 01:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. She's obviously over you for whatever reason. Even if you knew the reason you'd still feel the same if not worse. She's not worth your time if she can't be honest with you about her feelings. Find someone who will like you for you and treat you better than that. You deserve it! Cheer up!
2006-09-12 00:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months, wow. thats gotta be rough. It'll take a little bit of time but I am sure you'll be okay....
Find someone new. It doessn't matter that she is not the one...now you know. 3 billion more to go. It'll be alright.
2006-09-12 00:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by rainsparrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋