I have a friend that i experimented with. Problem was she was getting married when we messed around. It was amazing and we both have a strong attraction to eachother. Problem now is, her husband won't let her have lesbian sex with or without him. We have remained close friends, but we still talk dirty to eachother and still desire to want to be with eachother. Should we stay friends even though the temptation and attraction will always be there and should we go behind her husbands back. It wouldn't be sexual because it is purely sexual. I don't know what to do
2006-09-11 17:29:09 · 9 answers · asked by Tori 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a hard one. Find another girl if u must have one she is married quite simply .
2006-09-11 17:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... what's going on here?? You have been asking some strange questions. Obviously, you are very young and probably just learning about sex. You even tricked me on the last one because you changed your nickname during the same time that I was giving my answer.. you were asking questions under the name of meisha and now you've changed it to Tori.. If you have questions about sex, you need to go talk to your parents or health teacher at school. This is not the place for you to learn about it.
2006-09-12 00:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by ami mena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do anything behind his back, you'll be danaging his marriage.
i know its in the past, but wouldn't it have been nice to talk about this before her and him got married? in all fairnes to him.
not all guys like a crowd u know. respect what they have. if u can't be just friends and he's not up for the whole 3some thing, just cuz contact if that's what it takes.
I think she's bi. I don't know what you are. You could just be experimenting or in need of something physical period.
2006-09-12 01:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs to choose. Marriage or you. Could she be playing both of you? Unfair to you and to him, neither one of you can have her fully. Sucky situation. Be her friend, quit the dirty talk (will only fuel the fire that you cannot attain!). Maybe she'll come around and divorce this guy - but if she doesn't - don't pursue the girl on girl action with her - can only lead to DRAMA. and who needs that s@#%?
2006-09-12 00:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by lalo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual tension is a hard one to be honest remain friends and if you want to you can remain sexual with eachother behind someones back but it is cheating and very hurtfuil. maybe she married the wrong guy or she thinks she loves men but obviously loves you.
2006-09-12 00:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys could be lesbians if you had more time together. i think that you should pursue the relationship because it sounds like she is attracted to you, but shes afraid. i think that she wants to be "normal", thats why she got married. but its sounds as if she is not in love with him, she desires you, so go for it, i would
2006-09-12 00:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by psychologistnovelist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds really hot, but I think for both of you --you should get some space..If you pursue her it can only break up her marriage. Find someone who is not attached that can give you her full attention.
2006-09-12 00:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your bi, yes you should hook up without him
2006-09-12 00:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yea. You are
2006-09-12 00:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋