I'm 24 and he's 25. We r different nationality. We have been together a year. He went back his country 2 months ago told me would back soon but yterday he told he might stay there for make money more and don' t know when will back!!! He told still love me too much but can't back now bcause no job in my country when he back here just stay with me but no job!!! He don't want i wait for him. He don't want I sad but said always contact me and we will together again when he back!!! I understand him he can't choose btween love and life!!! U think should i wait him or not??? I don't want to separate to him I still love him and he still love me!!! But he has to far aways bcause work!!! How should I do???
2006-09-11 17:53:05 · 9 answers · asked by nonglnalak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he wanted to be with you - there would not be this issue. Sadly, he probably does not intend to come back to be with you. Have a good cry and find someone new. He may have made the biggest mistake of his life, but you cannot wait for him - he may never back. Find someone who wants to be with you. Good Luck.
2006-09-11 17:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by lalo m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't he take you with him?? Would you have gone with him?? I mean its hard.. I know it is.. you can't just take him out of your life like that!!! Love is blind.. and it's beautiful.. Personally.. I will have a big issue about that. If a man says he's going to stay over i think that's selfish on his Half!!! because if he loves you he wouldn't want to stay there.. he would be with you... Just wait a couple more weeks before you make a real descion.. Talk to him about it more.. See what he would want to do.. and if he says i dont know... I would not be with him.. I hate when my bf says i dont know.. but I hope i helped you out in some way!!! Take care!!! and Good luck!!
2006-09-12 01:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by ~*JENNIFER*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he said he thinks he is going to stay there for the money and didn't tell you he would come for you, and also told you that he doesn't want you to wait for him, THEN DON'T. Move on with your life. Time heals the hurt, Stay active and start dating.
2006-09-12 00:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by blaze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by what he is saying i say do not wait...he has given you plenty of insightful info on how he feels ( love is blind), I'll not bore you with them but look at your letter and every time you see "he told" ," but"
loook carefully at what follows... you may want to write them down. also the words before and after "love".
then too because of different cultural morays that you have i could be off by a mile... please let us know his general geography location
2006-09-12 01:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends. Both of you are like "Star-Crossed Lovers". If someone comes along during your wait, take it and move on. That's life :-)
2006-09-12 00:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be logical and ask him to be so,too. don't push him hard to get Ur answer but tell what ure thinking, expect an answer not immediately and give him time to decide.
2006-09-12 01:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by aida 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if it is impossible to wait, maybe love not as strong as necessary. he must be openly dating to tell you not to wait Is he worthy would be the question.
2006-09-12 01:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by hangglider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you go to him?
2006-09-12 00:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by sandcatsle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for him, things will get better......
2006-09-12 01:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by california chick.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋