2006-09-11 18:18:48 · 13 answers · asked by dc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm wrong, not neccasarily although it could well be a ethical timebomb. It really depends on the current situation, how long they been split ? how serious was it between them. Although b4 u even think bout a relationship with her i wud highly advice speaking with ur brother and finding out his views on this. If it was a messy breakup then it cud well bring back plenty of bad memories etc. Also not to be so crude about the point but could u really go where ur own brother has been b4 u ? must admit it isnt something i cud do, but i spose thats what makes individuals. So just make sure u go into it slowly but for gods sake be open with ur brother BEFORE u do it. Good luck to ya
2006-09-11 18:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and not only that its grimy why would you want your brothers sloppy seconds by dating a woman behind your brother means you may be dealing with self esteem issues because the clear message you are sending out loud and clear is that you dont mind being second best because there is a reason why your brother doesnt date her anymore and what does your own brother think about you going behind him picking up his sloppy seconds.
2006-09-12 01:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is really weird, you are competing with your brother and it does not look good if both of you are dating the same girl. in this case you are not the one affected but the girl , people may say she is a flirt because she is going out with you two.
2006-09-12 01:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? It's not only weird, it's morally wrong. If she is willing to date you after having dated your brother she is probably a loser anyway.
2006-09-12 01:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Wiccan Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find it weird to date one of my sisters' boyfriends... but you never know. Depending on relations between you and your brother and your brother and the person in question, it really depends. Go with your gut.
2006-09-12 01:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by vratsababe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no as long as your brother knows. he might even give you some tips in what to do or not and what she expects. Just be sure to let your brother know your intentions before you do it.
2006-09-12 01:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by cuttur2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT VERY WEIRD TO DATE SOMEON THAT YOUR BROTHER DATE. WHY WOULD YOU WANT SOMEONE
THAT BEEN WITH YOUR BROTHER. NOT TOO COOL'
AT ALL. I WOULD NEVER GO THERE.
2006-09-12 01:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be weirder if you were his sister.
he he
seriously, don't date your brother or best friend's former dates, that's just a recipe for trouble.
2006-09-12 01:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by electroberry1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can be. Depends on the level of their relationship and your involvement.
2006-09-12 01:21:01 · answer #9 · answered by Russ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH!!! hell ya i think its weird and a lil creepy, what are you guys guna do on the date.... compare notes?????? who did what, and how???? gross.... go find someone else, why you want your brothers sloppy seconds???
2006-09-12 01:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by california chick.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋