I have a question everyone?

Question

Now honestly, what's more important to you all in a relationship? Looks or personality? What else do you factor into what you look for? The reason I ask is because I'm not all that attractive to look at so do you think that's why it's hard for me to find a decent guy? I don't really even look for guys, I just seem to attract jerks. So what do you all go for in the opposite sex?

Answer 1

I honestly look for personality. Like what she wants in life, how she thinks, how sweet, etc. This is what attracted me from my lady. I'll be honest. She's good-looking, but that is not what I look for. A girl may be hot, beautiful, etc. But does she have the personality? Brains? So, personality matters to me the most. Hey, I wish you my very best. Good Luck!

Answer 2

While in the end I think personality is most important there has to be some physical attraction. If your not visually attractive to someone you probably won't have a chance to show your personality. Think about whats important to you. Are you out scouting the pock faced guy with a pot belly and one ear with a great personality? Of course not but if you already knew him and he was truly your sole mate those physical issues would become far less noticeable. I believe there is someone for everybody so don't settle just shop until you find that one special person for you. Good luck and just remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder and as we get older the heart has far better vision than the eye. By the way that's a really good thing cause I can't remember seeing an attractive 70 year old.

After I wrote this I noticed your 360 page and your picture. Why in the world don't you think you're attractive?

Answer 3

Personality each and every time! Looks will fade over time but personality never will.

Also, if that photo is of you, you look attractive.

I also seem to attract jerks. I guess when its the "right time" the right one will appear. In the mean time enjoy life and be thankful you didn't settle for a jerk!

Answer 4

Personality is more important but you can have both. I go for the guys that enjoy the same things that I do. Someone that is close to their family. Somebody with both of those qualities I believe is the perfect match for anyone. Good Luck. And God Bless.

Answer 5

Sorry to hear that. I think I suffer from the same affliction. Anyway, personality is much more important to me than looks, because I cant stand conceited, arrogant or boring girls.

The most important things to me are:

Intelligence
Sense of humour
Laid back attitude
Into music
Into art
Not arrogant

Answer 6

see looks does matter...but most important thiing in the opp. sex is his/her character,personality,way of speaking n interacting with others,etc..don't just think low about urself...if u r good at heart there are some who would surely look 4 u..guys who just see the character n attitude n not ur physique may be the decent ones..but according to me looks also matters to some extent..

Answer 7

Looks my attract you initially, but personality keeps you there. The allure of looks will always wear off. I need an intelligent, witty woman who can keep my interest.

Answer 8

i would say personality is more important,because who wants a girl that always dull.the way i see it it you got personality then you are attractive.

Answer 9

well, hate to say but it's bit of this and that. when given absolutely one choice btw look n personality, would be personality for me.

Answer 10

personality