I found out last year 3 days before Christmas that my husband cheated on me 7 months earlier. He begged forgiveness and promised he'd never do it again. I have never forgiven him but I'm trying to live with it. Now, after him going to his weekly pool game at a bar, he came home late, drunk and crying. He said he was crying because he's worried over his son's marriage. I called the bar and nonchalantely asked "who was the lady _____ was talking to and the bartender said "I don't know her name". So that definitely clarified that he was talking to a lady even though he denied it. After the affair before, I don't even think it's right for any man to be at a bar, drinking, and talking to other women, especially when the wife is at home thinking that he's not doing anything wrong. I did a little "homework" and found out that he lied to me about a couple of little things. I feel so broken hearted I can't stand it. I'm tired of worrying about what he's doing. Any opinions?
2007-11-07
13:01:57
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doglover
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Marriage & Divorce