English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

Its in a university, and i need to know a way to approach women. I dont know exactly what i should say. so any suggestions

2007-11-07 13:01:11 · 14 answers · asked by T A 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

Don't start off with name exchange like the other guys suggested. I guaruntee you they are friendless virgins.

It's an overly formal and awkward way to introduce yourself.

It's not normal for people to just walk up to someone and have the first thing out of their mouth being to tell them their name. When's the last time you ever saw that happen? Did you ever meet any of your friends that way? No.

Did you watch the pick up artist, where they take some really shy loser guys who are terrible with women, and try to reform them to learn how to talk to women? In the intro session, where they were supposed to show their stuff, they did the exact same thing. They just walked up a woman and just said hi my name is... which created an unnatural and awkward air that got shot down right away.

You don't want to appear weird when making a first impression. You have to say something relevant but interesting that grabs their attention. You can try a situational opener. Follow up with something interesting. Make something up that's somewhat related to the conversation but you can not get called out on. Or the easiest thing to do would just to be yourself and approach tons of women. Eventually you'll find one that likes you, it's a statistical certainty. You might undergo lots of rejection, but be strong and you'll find one. Good luck.

2007-11-07 13:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ok. If you see them or something. Just introduce yourself. "Hi, my name is_____. Whats yours?" (Make sure you have a smile when you introduce yourself. Its make the biggest difference when you have a smile) Don't ask them when they're on the move. They may not be paying attention usually if their moving becasue they have other things on their mind. If its a new school then ask where a certain room is and they would usually point you in the right direction. Say thank you and move on without looking back. But dont forget about her though. Say hi when you see her again. Don;t linger too much because you come off as some creepy punk. Try to be normal and don't be too nervous. Goodluck..

2007-11-07 13:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by Cameron 3 · 0 0

Here are tips on How to Get A Girlfriend https://bitly.im/aL9dW Whether in high school, college, or out of college, when you know what to say and how to say it and how to act to make girls interested in dating you, life becomes a lot easier. It's not even about your looks either. I've seen attractive guys have a hard time getting a girl while an average guy gets a bunch of girls. You just got to know the tricks. Have fun.

Best way to eat out a girl https://bitly.im/aL9dW

2016-05-14 20:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth 4 · 0 0

If you see her carrying a certain text book, you can ask her else she's taking, or how she likes the courses, ask her what college/uni she goes to, then if that goes well, be like "Oh yeah, I'm _____ by the way"......as for the underground station usually I'm in no position to be talking to any guys, but if it's really rainy/sunny out, you could talk about the weather (not in the corny way...) Best of luck .

2016-04-03 01:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

College girls aren't any different than any other girls. Ask questions, be interested, and most of all, be yourself! Start by asking her major, what classes she's taking, what she likes to do in her spare time. It's really great when you can find a common interest that the two of you share. That's the way a lot of relationships develop. Good luck!

2007-11-07 13:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Smileygirl 1 · 0 0

Pick something relative to the current surroundings and run with it. ............Example She is walking among the campus with a psych 101 textbook and you say hey I`m taking that class too. Who`s your teacher? I have a report due in 2 weeks. Do you have a report as well....After the small talk then say lets grab a coffee sometime.

2007-11-07 13:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0 0

be yourself always, because if that isn't enough then no amount of opening lines will do you any justice in the end... just have to find the people and places where similar interests lie, and then you'll already have a foot in...

2007-11-07 13:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by grayeyeddame 2 · 0 0

just be yourself. say hi, hows it going. and talk. im in college and i love it when a guy approaches me and be himsself. but if i later find out he was being fake, i dont talk to him ever again!

2007-11-07 13:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by SeaShells09 2 · 0 0

Never go solo mish, get a platoon, party hard, and buy em drinks till they talk to you

2007-11-07 13:05:37 · answer #9 · answered by ChicagoMan 3 · 0 0

Ask them if they like Duck Sausage.



Then tell them to Duck down and get some!

2007-11-07 13:06:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

fedest.com, questions and answers