In June my cousin got married. My sister and I were supposed to be bridesmaids, but 2 wks before the wedding my cousin and sister had a falling out. My aunt called me and said that they were kicking my sis out of the wedding and they wanted me to tell her and get the dress back. They said I could still be in, but they'd understand if I didn't. Well, for obvious reasons I didn't attend, but I am very upset and hurt by the whole situation. To this day the only communication has been an email to me saying they were sorry I was hurt in all this. No apology, no admitting of wrongdoing, and still neither my aunt or cousin has called my sister to make amends. I refuse to speak to them and it has torn the family apart. Help! Am I wrong to feel this way? I can't get over the fact that they excluded us from a major life event and don't seem to feel all that bad about it. How do I get over this, or should I even try?
2007-10-12
15:37:05
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