Ok, we've been together 7 years now and we now have 3 sons. 1 1/2 years ago i had to move 2 hours away because of my job. And now we are finally back together. We are to be married next month finally; but i found out she had a 2 month affair about a year ago. Of course i was devastated, and i felt back then something wasnt right because she started working out, going to the tanning bed etc. but she convinced me she was being faithfull even though she didn't really act happy to see me. She told so many lies to cover up was going on and i waited completely faithfull for so long. Her friend told me everything and she doesn't deny it anymore. But she swears she didn't have sex with him blah blah blah.. And now my family is being tore apart and I want to forgive her but i get so mad,sick, and sad and she never said sorry. so now what to do. my parents divorced when i was 4, and i dont want my kids to live the life I did, I love them so much, is it worth toughing it out for the kids
2007-09-20
11:59:37
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Marriage & Divorce