Is it rude not to invite certain children to my wedding reception?
Currently, I have 15 children invited to my wedding. They are all family members; nieces, nephews, first cousins of my Fi and I.
My friend (w/ no children) says it's rude not to invite the children of our friends and co-workers.
The cost of a child's plate at my reception site is $30. If we invite the children of friends and co-workers I'll have to add 20 kids. Having 15 kids will cost me about $500, but having 35 will cost me $1000. That's a huge difference. Our wedding already costing us A LOT b/c we have 130 guests. We orginally had list of 150-160, but we had to cut 30 adults b/c the cost was getting crazy.
This is really an issue of cost. But, we need to have our family there. My family is very important to me. Our neices and nephews are very close to us and we are huge figures in their lives. Our friend's children, not so much. We see them, but we're not close.
2007-08-24
17:37:58
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