Etiquette - April 2007

I have kids who need daycare 2 days a week for three hours from 5AM-8-8:30AM. I met a woman who appeared to be very nice mother of three,with a contract defining expectations from both parties.When we initially sought her service we explained we have no family or friends in the area, and we need atleasta two week notice of resignation. Short she did not open the door, my husband missed work,she claimed her schedule was wrong. Husband wanted to pay for two weeks discontinue service,told her I would try to convince him to get over miscommunication. Would call and have definite answer. That evening she called and left a voice mail stating she would no longer be able to provide services.However she cashed my checks for services.I had only a one day notice to find other arrangements. Also many places require two weeks up front and a registration fee.We have the money,but it is principle.She cashed the checks stopping payment not option.I am writting a letter to her any other options?

2007-04-19 17:22:03 · 3 answers · asked by niki b 1

For them to be following behind you with a broom sweeping every footprint you make?

2007-04-19 16:06:22 · 16 answers · asked by rosey 7

It is so rude and annoying. They assume everyone wants to hear their music

2007-04-19 16:01:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm hand-writing a personal letter and it's a lot longer than what I'm used to writing (9 pages). Most of my personal letters are within 1-3 pages and I never staple the pages together, I just fold them and put them in the envelope. It seems a lot easier to me to staple 9 pages together, but is that considered bad ettiquette for writing a personal letter? It may seem like a stupid question, but it also seems to me that adding a simple staple makes it more formal, almost like a business letter, and takes away from the personality of the letter. Almost like typing a letter instead of hand writing it. Maybe I'm being too anal about this, but this question is really bothering me. I need a second opinion about this. Only serious answers please.

2007-04-19 15:58:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

These biased comments have simply got to stop!!! I was totally offended and believe that referring to anyone using an adjective such as: the "bald guy" the "blue eyed girl" etc. should be placed in the category as racial/ethnic comments such as "the Mexican girl" "The homosexual" and "the Jew" Who cares if the comment is true. I feel that if someone uses a descriptive adjective to refer to a person, they should be classed as a racist/prejudiced/biased person. Ooops, those are all adjectives too aren't they? Well, anyway, as of now I want to be referred to as Cranial follically challenged. Oh darn!! challenged is an adjective too. Does anyone agree, and if so how can I solve this dilemma?

2007-04-19 15:28:56 · 37 answers · asked by Whatever 2

what are some chinse/taiwanese etiqutte that i should observe when i go to Taiwan?

2007-04-19 15:03:02 · 6 answers · asked by jolin 2

Hello! Alvin Hemlock here. I'm a researcher doing studies in the arctic and will soon be escorting fellow naturalists to the field. We'll bring along various very bad rap music to see its effects on wildlife here. Do you think the polar bears will attack or flee?

2007-04-19 14:42:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have several graduation parties to attend. I do not have a lot of cash to hand out, but I would like to get each person a gift.
Any great ideas?

2007-04-19 14:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by Jenwa 1

I think thats gross. y dont they want privacy?

2007-04-19 14:25:08 · 19 answers · asked by Cristy 1

2007-04-19 14:16:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were supposed to meet and hang out yesterday after our classes (we're both in college). We've only met online (she posted a personal ad), and she told me she "definetly" wanted to meet me. She gave me her # and said call when you get out. I did, got her voicemail, left a message.... nothing. I waited like 35-40 minutes til my bus came. I sent a text message saying "guess I missed you, blah blah blah..." And she hasn't called me or anything. I'm thinking that I should just let it go, and not try to contact her. Is that a good idea? What would you do?

2007-04-19 13:00:32 · 7 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

Im korean and after the vtech massacre ive been mocked at school? is it right... should i be embarassed?

2007-04-19 12:32:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My dad is turning 70 in a couple of weeks. What would be a really funny over the hill gift and also what are some good gift ideas other than fishing or hunting stuff and cologne. Id like to get him something he wouldnt ususally get.

2007-04-19 12:17:53 · 5 answers · asked by thumpergirl_1979 5

i have people calling me a bully but i'm not mean...

2007-04-19 11:10:04 · 10 answers · asked by soccergirlol06 1

Considering that he bled to death, would it be an appropriate attempt at brevity to go to his funeral dressed as a clown ?

2007-04-19 10:46:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My co-workers often bring in sweets and treats, some homemade. I am trying to eat healthier, but do not want to seem rude or like I am passing judgement. Is there a polite way to refuse the treats?

2007-04-19 10:41:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is a nice way to say "Without the co-op for food and clothing, her family would be much worse off?" I have to write a paper for community service and I can't think of a way to write that without making it sound like this lady is already "worse off". I don't want to sound rude. Thanks!

2007-04-19 10:32:58 · 4 answers · asked by smartchica 3

I can understand why it would. But I really don't think it SHOULD. For one, the word "God" could apply to any gods. Not to mention that when people say "God damn", they are not asking a god to damn something. It's become a figure of speech more than anything.

I ask because I noticed that the radio censors the "god" in "god damn"(yay freedom of speech!). That personally annoys the crap out of me, and I don't really get why people are offended by it.

2007-04-19 10:11:56 · 36 answers · asked by Sleepy 2

I am a smoker and smoke in a resturant if it's allow. But do respect the lungs of others around me. I don't smoke however in my home for my kids sake, nor do I around babies or pregnant women. What are your view? Do you think no smoking in public places is fair? Why? If not why?

2007-04-19 09:36:58 · 23 answers · asked by QuestionQueen 3

My client and his family are visiting us from Japan next month. I'm planning to take them around and do all the touristy things. We really only have three days with them. So the schedule is tight.
When I travel abroad, I tend to go eat at places that offer a variety of foods from that culture. Why would I go to Italy and have a hamburger and fries ? I can get that here anytime.

So, I want to take my client and his family out for dinner at an upscale American cuisine restaurant. My wife thinks that we should go to a upscale Japanese restaurant.
My client is looking forward to the visit and has said he is open to anything we have planned for them. They are very well cultured and have traveled all over the world.
So, what do you think? Non Japanese or Japanese. It not the money, its the bragging rights.

2007-04-19 09:21:48 · 112 answers · asked by USMarine Dad 3

i got shot n i was in the hospital. my girlfriend came to see me n as soon as she walked in she started yelling at me. she didnt gimme a kiss or hug she didnt even ask me if i was ok. she just went on about me getting shot n watever. did she have a good point about being like that or was she just being a *****? would u do the same if u were her?

2007-04-19 09:16:15 · 11 answers · asked by Paco El Vago! 3

2007-04-19 09:13:30 · 8 answers · asked by Hadz Y 1

This could be with anything embarrasing toilet paper stuck to your leg, your skirt bunched up in the back so you underwear is showing.... why do people not tell you when you have something embarrasing like that...why do they let you keep going through humiliation?

2007-04-19 08:20:26 · 13 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5

I need to ask out this one girl that I'm interested in. I know nothing about her but I want to go on a random date before I am out of college. I'm 22 and never asked out a girl before. How do I approach her given that I don't even know her name? I'm a bit nervous

2007-04-19 07:34:53 · 20 answers · asked by fdsafd s 1

in food and sex.

2007-04-19 07:26:03 · 15 answers · asked by #+%? 3

2007-04-19 07:01:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He thinks that all young people (including those in their 20s) are just lazy and punks. Should I just ignore him or what would be the best thing to do/say next time he says a rude comment about me or others?

2007-04-19 06:48:31 · 18 answers · asked by Bedelia 2

My friend says that mongoloid is acceptable because it is the old Latin reference, but I'm not so sure. Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-04-19 06:14:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I give the bartender a dollar per drink- if i order one beer I give him a buck if I order two beers I give him two bucks- if I order a specialty drink I might give him two bucks if teh bar is busy but generally I still give him a buck

I get my hair cut at super cuts- it runs $14 dollars- I give the barber $5 on average- one lady gave me a bad cut and I didnt give her anything and she was kinda rude then there was one lady who did a fab job I gave her $15

I get a $13 car wash I tipped the guy $3 he made a funny face

I get my shoes shinned for $5 I tipped him $1

Am I a bad tipper???

2007-04-19 06:01:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-19 06:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by socalledchema 1