We were supposed to meet and hang out yesterday after our classes (we're both in college). We've only met online (she posted a personal ad), and she told me she "definetly" wanted to meet me. She gave me her # and said call when you get out. I did, got her voicemail, left a message.... nothing. I waited like 35-40 minutes til my bus came. I sent a text message saying "guess I missed you, blah blah blah..." And she hasn't called me or anything. I'm thinking that I should just let it go, and not try to contact her. Is that a good idea? What would you do?
2007-04-19 13:00:32 · 7 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would let it go, maybe she'll call you to let you know what happened.. if not then whatever, shes not good enough for you anyway
2007-04-19 13:15:54 · answer #1 · answered by aly 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As a woman I can tell you what may have happened:
1. she saw you, did not feel attracted to you & decided to end things b4 they began!
2. she could have had a family emergency -- things happen: parents/grandparents/siblings get ill or die!!!
3. she got extremely busy with homework, her job, whatever and was too tired to meet you and went to bed.
4. she totally forgot!
5. she met someone else or went back with prev. boyfriend.
Give it a couple days, if you dont hear from her, assume answer # 1. above !
If so, forget it, that's the dating game! That's why when you eventually find that someone special, that special someone who was meant for you -- remember how tough it is to find a love and NEVER, EVER TAKE HER FOR GRANTED !!!
DON'T FORGET ALL the HOLIDAYS & SPECIAL OCCASSIONS GIRLS LOOK FORWARD TO: Valentines' day, Birthdays, Christmas, Anniversary of when you met, other anniversaries, and JUST BECUZ I LOVE YOU DAYS !!!! It only takes a little effort to make a woman feel appreciated: a romantic card with a poem you wrote for her only, Roses, sexy lingerie (after you are a couple), and things she enjoys -- fav music, fav books, fav hobbies, etc !!! A massage when she is weary!!! Her favorite morning beverage on her nightstand when she wakes each morning! (My husband has a fresh iced down Diet Mt. Dew on my nightstand every morning when I wake up and hasnt missed a day in 30+ years -- I adore him for caring !!! Special things like that. She may not want a drink each morning, but she might -- your job will be to learn what her habits are and what she likes, wants and needs!!! This effort will endear you to your woman !!! I promise!!!
2007-04-19 20:28:39 · answer #2 · answered by BARBIE 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it - for all you know you were one of 5 or 6 guys she was chatting with, and she hooked up with one of the others last night. Move on.
2007-04-19 20:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by ZenPenguin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's really not cool that she stood you up because you obviously took effort to meet up with her. if you really want to pursue her, then wait a couple of days to see if she takes the initiative to contact you by email or messenger again. but even if she does, personally if i were in your situation, i'd just forget about her. it's just not right.
2007-04-19 20:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she figured out that meeting someone off the online site wasn't such a good ideal...you need becareful also.
2007-04-19 20:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something happen.
Give her time, and try again.
There was something about you she liked.
2007-04-19 20:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by elliebear 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, forget it.
2007-04-19 20:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by tranquility_base3@yahoo.com 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋