A woman I work with is constantly receiving gifts of food from ladies in the office; she is our supervisor. The food is from women of a different culture; we are American. They bring her large containers, enough to share with her family. She accepts the food graciously, but, she doesn't really like most of their foods. In the office she will whisper to me that it is awful. She told me (more than once) that she takes it home and throws it in the garbage. She even goes so far as to tell them it was delicious and ask for the recipe!
Last week, because I'd had enough of listening to this, I suggested that she just tell them. I said that these women would not be offended if you graciously thanked them for being so thoughtful,but tell them that she did not care for that particular dish.
She said it would be rude to say that she did not like the food, and that she will continue to accept it, and throw it away! I was appalled, but I did not say any thing more. What is your opinion?
2006-09-18
17:07:06
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candace b
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