I tried to ask this question in the shortest form possible, but I seriously messed it up. Here’s more of the story.
Two people at my grandparents’ church got offended because I didn’t send them a graduation invitation to their house.
Now yesterday, they sent me a graduation present, a ring. I don't want to thank them after the immature way they acted about not being singled out.
AND there is a good reason they were not singled out. No one was. I had a terrible battle with depression the whole second semester, and I wasn't sure of graduating until about a week before the ceremony itself. So sending out personalized invitations to over a 100 people was not an option. Addressing them would have taken at least 2 or 3 days, the mail would have taken another 2 or 3 to get to them, leaving at the most 3 days of notification for the whole thing. We put up the invitation as soon as we knew.
So, the question I was really getting at was how do I resolve this without “airing my dirty laundry”?
2007-08-08
06:49:44
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