My ex & I have a 22 mo. old. He's dating a woman (for 5 months) who has 5 kids, 19, 16, 14, 10, 2 1/2. My ex & I get along pretty well, we feel it's what is best for our child. We are partners child rearing. No bad feelings. We discussed introducing girl/boyfriends to our child (& other things) . I'm of the opinion we should wait, he siad we could "cross that bridge when we come to it." Turns out he has crossed that bridge and his girlfriend spends time with him and our child. I'm angry because he lied (again). But what is done is done, I've asked to him to try to be honest and keep me informed. He wants me to meet her, to "ease my mind". Frankly I don't need my mind eased. She introduced him to her kids right away. That's fine if that's her choice as a parent, I'm of another opinion but don't believe either of us are wrong. I trust my ex to take care of our child and keep him safe, so I don't feel like I need to "check her out."
What do you think? Should I meet her?
2006-11-04
09:25:33
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