Last night was sad, and unfortunately not too uncommon. (it isn't an every day thing, but still... it happens a few times a month and I wish i could help.)
My daughter and I were sitting on the couch watching a movie. In it, a man put his life in danger to save a girl. My kid bursted out crying. I thought maybe the scene was too scary. When I tried to comfort her, she said she wished that her dad loved her that much.
He has not lived with us since 2003. He wants to, but I will not allow it. He is an alcoholic, and he has proven himself to be dangerous when he drinks. He has been to rehab, but I have still caught him drinking and been told that he makes threats behind my back. I do encourage him to see her sometimes with my supervision, but she just can't understand and I don't know what to do.
I tell her that her father loves her. He wants to be with us, but when he drinks beer he does not think straight. Then she asks why can't we just take away his beer so he will be better.
2006-10-30
09:22:37
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Michelle
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