Lately I feel like I haven't been close to my 4-year daughter I work 9-5 and in law school. I want to be able to be close and open with her what should I do with her tonight so we can both laugh and have a good time?
2006-10-30 10:47:22 · 11 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Bonding with your child has already been put into place my dear,,its up to you to keep building on it.You seem to have alot of mother instinct within you heart,,you will be fine just doing the most simple things with her,,like popcorn and a movie,,or even bakeing cookies and makeing a mess,,she will love the time you spend with her no matter what you do with her.
good luck hun,,,,and have fun.
2006-10-30 10:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by ladydi_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this won't work for tonight, but my daughter loves when I do it. we are a family of four, two kids, one boy one girl. during the weekend, or a strech where making up for lost sleep is possible, I will get everyone to bed as usual, and then late in the night I go in a wake her by tickling her, once she is up we go into the living room and watch a movie, and eat popcorn while we take turns brushing each others hair, and I do her nails, and so forth...(shes 2 btw), then once she passes out on the couch I take her back to bed and go to bed myself. This gives her mommy only time, which with a newborn baby brother she feels left out of, and she gets to experience some of the things that she will get to do with her girlfriends when she is older. It makes her feel special and like a big girl. Hope that helps, have fun!
2006-10-30 10:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Playful_Pandora 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's her favorite cartoon? Watch the disney channel. I watch the disney channel with my baby every morning and I watch and know all the songs to each show. Cook dinner and have her be mommy's lil' helper. It's important to squeeze some bonding time wether it's even 20 or 30 minutes... Go to the video store and have her pick out a movie.... Lil' girls love Dora the Explorer! Read a story to her..... whatever makes her happy and you feel like you're bonding for the time you can.
2006-10-30 11:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not everyone has that bond or perhaps those that do go by classes of not feeling bonded. you may want to communicate over such as your mom and locate out her interests and pursuits and then see in case you'll want to particpate in any of those.
2016-12-05 09:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a pajama party--she'd love it!
First, make a huge bubble bath for her and let her play in it for awhile. Then, both of you get in your pajamas and pop popcorn and let her pick out a movie to watch together. After that, play a game with her and then read a story to her before she goes to bed. I guarantee she'll have a great time with you. Good luck and God bless :-)
2006-10-30 10:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by CelebrateMeHome 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just be there for her. When you study give her something to do next to you. Leave her love notes for lunch that she car read.
Tonight watch Chitty Chitty Bang Bang.
2006-10-30 10:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i recommend you play a fun board game with her or sit down and watch a movie with popcorn. just spending time with her doesn't matter how u go about doing it.
2006-10-30 10:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Senior@Carrick♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her "Trick or Treating", wouldn't that be fun?
You can dress up too, my kids love it when we do that.
I hope you do have a fun night, Happy Halloween.
2006-10-30 10:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Curious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get down on the floor with her and ask her what she wants to do and go from there.
2006-10-30 13:28:35 · answer #9 · answered by HazelEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reading, cuddling, bake cookies, play dolls, play dress-up, just to name a few.
2006-10-30 10:51:38 · answer #10 · answered by chapes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋