2006-10-30 07:49:33 · 18 answers · asked by kissmybum 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Oh...did I mention she is pregnant now!....and mom wonders why?...LMAO
He is also 15.....but lives with his sister not his parents(not sure why).
GMAB...she has allowed her to do this since she was 14....and she(mom) still thinks the just starting having sex!
2006-10-30 07:59:00 · update #1
they just started having sex*
Yeah right!
2006-10-30 07:59:48 · update #2
Absoulutely not.
Of course the child is pregnant. With no firm set of rules and guidelines to follow, she was bound to wind up that way. I am afraid to ask how old is the bf. The boys mother is not to bright her damn self.
And we wonder why society is messed up today. Parents need to stop being their children's friend.
2006-10-30 08:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by hsp_goddess 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't promote sex in my house.. Or allow her to go somewhere else to spend the night to have sex.. She will just have sex in other places though.. At school in the bathrooms or at the movies or wherever.. I would just put her on birth control and STOP the sleepovers..
At the same time.. When I was 15 I was living with a guy.. i'm now 20 and have a 2 almost 3 year old and another baby that was just born aug 11th.. soo as long as my girls never figure out when me and their daddy first started to live together.. Hmm.. lol
2006-10-30 15:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Mom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some people are so dumb, I have son's and i would never have there girlfriends stay the night or the other way around talk about a baby having a baby life is too short with out making a 15 year old parents not to say how hard it is going to be on these kids
2006-10-30 16:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by helen l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is mom mentally handicapped??? She thinks her daughter just started having sex? She doesn't understand how her daughter ended up pregnant??? Mom sure is naive, isn't she! This girl needs a parent, not a friend. Now the daughter will probably raise her child the same way and only add to the current problem with our society.
2006-10-30 16:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Julie F 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
In general, no. But there are exceptions to every rule. I would have to be very close to and have a lot of trust for him and his family though before I would do it.
If my daughter has a boyfriend when she is 15 and they have a good reason for wanting to spend the night together (such as his parents are out of town and he doesn't have anywhere better to crash so he can make it to school the next day) then he will be treated like any other male. He will be expected to sleep in another room and they will be where I can see them when they are together.
It isn't because I want to be her friend. It is because hopefully she will have good judgement in guys and I think that every good guy deserves a safe place to crash for the night. However, let me point this out again - I will have to know the boy very well and have a lot of trust for him first.
I sometimes watch my 16 year old niece and I have let her have boys over for the night before. She sleeps in my room and they sleep in the living room. It is on her overprotective mother's watch that the girl almost got herself pregnant.
I have also spent the night with boyfriends when I was a teen. I know from experience that it is possible to stay with a guy without having sex.
And as for the being pregnant thing goes. ... well, if my daughter came home and told me she was pregnant and the father wanted to spend the night - Yes I would let him. I would want to encourage them to see what kind of relationship they can have together without forcing them either way. And I would want to get to know the young man - see if he is suitable to be with my daughter.
2006-10-30 16:58:11 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
OMG! having been a teenage girl myself !! I'd never let my daughters stay over at a lads house until they are at least 19. Maybe at 17 i'd let a boyfriend stay at our house, on the sofa with our GSD having the run of the house and sleeping at the top of the stairs ! I have 3 girls 10, 12 & 13 and Im dreading the next few years lol.
2006-10-30 16:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jovi Freak 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is very hard to put your foot down with a 15yr old now days,,depending what state you live in.I know when I raised my three girls,,there was not much I could do when they turned 15yrs old.Oh yes I would put my foot down by telling them,,no boys spending the night in my house,,but the end result would be ,,so they went else where to be with their guy friends.
One of my daughters at the age of fifteen,,went as far as running away with a 25yr old man and taking me on a T.V talk show.
Needless to say he went to jail and my daughter got her own place.
If I had it to do all over again,,well I do not think I would .
good luck
2006-10-30 19:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by ladydi_me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not let them do the whole sleep over thing. But one thing that I know is that they are going to have sex one way or the other weather it is at your house the boyfriends house or in the back seat of a car they are going to have sex if they want to. The one thing that i want in the relationship that I have with my girls is honesty. And if they are going to have sex then I want to know about it so that I can take care of what I need to take care of as the parent but if you fight with them on it they are going to do it anyways. And I also want the same relationship with my boys and that is Honesty honesty and that is a big thing that I want I don't want to be there friend I want to be their mother but I also want them to know that they can come forward and talk to me about sex if that is what it comes to.
2006-10-30 16:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by Daigsmommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's why the child is pregnant now, she has no guidance from her parents. she will go onto be a one parent family and treat her children the same the circle is never broken, parents should give their children guidance not permission to sleep with there partners, may be you can learn from this sex isn't always fun not when you pay that kind of price.
2006-10-30 17:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by twinsters 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not only no but HELL NO!!
Too many parents are trying to befriend their kids...kids need parents to put their foot down and set boundaries!
My husband and I were in our late 30's, were engaged to be married with a date and everything and his parents wouldn't let us sleep in the same room a week before our wedding!
2006-10-30 15:54:33 · answer #10 · answered by NEWTOME 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋