My husband and I have been married for 6 months. I'm 30 and he's 7 1/2 years older than I am. He has 2 kids and so do I. I want us to have one together, for many reasons, the main ones being that I want to have *his* baby and I simply want another child. However, he already has 2 girls and I have one of each. Neither of us really wants another girl lol. However, it's keeping us from really trying for a baby, because we are afraid it will be another girl. We both desperately want another boy. Please help me figure out how to change our minds about this. I'd LOVE another son, but it seems like if we had a baby girl, it'd be....sighs.....another girl? Please don't bash me or tell me how ungrateful I am or how selfish I'm being because I have already thought about all of that. Yes, we would most want the baby to be healthy, but have any of you felt the way that we are now? What did you do about it?
2007-06-08
09:50:11
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Emmy F
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