I'm just gonna be straight up so if you can't handle this just leave now, you are weak if you have to answer harshly/obnoxiously.
That said, I have been dating my b/f for over 2 yrs., living together over 6 mnths, my family loves and accepts him, and we are pretty stable for 29 (him) and 21 (me). Even on BIRTH CONTROL (I put emphasis on this b/c we are not a reckless couple, we always knew kids are no joke) I am currently 7 wks. pregnant. We r behavin as if we're keeping it (I'm applying for medicaid, he gave me #'s to 3 reputable OB-GYN's and we literally went to Barnes and Noble for three hours reading about pregnancy and parenting) but we are both in doubt and abortion is an option. We r realistic and knew we wouldn't marry, we're simply together and content. We could do this maturely and civilized but we're not sure if we're the ones to have a child together. I am young but that's not my fear, I am just worried he's not "the one" you know? Is it wise to have this baby? Opinions?
2007-06-22
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