I have another i am babysitting question (i babysit a lot.) i am babysitting a 5 year old and the parent is coming home at 10 PM should i ask the mom if she wants me to put her son to bed and what time?
2007-06-22 08:48:22 · 15 answers · asked by stc123 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If your already there, don't bother them by calling. If they check in, then ask. Otherwise try putting a movie in around 730, and have him ready for bed.
2007-06-22 08:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by jami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the parent should have told you. But if they didn't, I would ask. Is this a kid you babysit regularly or is this a 1 time thing? The reason I ask is if it's a regular thing, they will most likely want you to try to keep their child on a schedule. If it's a 1 time gig, then they may want the child to be awake when they get home.
And this is from a parent. When in doubt, ask. If nothing else, it shows that you are serious about this job.
2007-06-29 00:51:44 · answer #2 · answered by fritz_monroe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The parents should go over all these things with you before they leave. If not, just ask and make sure, most 5 year olds go to bed around 7 or 8 (at least the ones I know).
2007-06-22 15:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by ChisseyGuwel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 5 year old and she would normally be getting to bed around 10 on the weekends. I think you should maybe just ask if the parent wants you to put the child to bed anyway. It doesn't hurt to ask.
2007-06-28 15:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your already there babysitting, its not a big deal..but yes, if you've not gotten there yet, and can still casually ask her, go for it, parents seem to like to know your involved etc..
Again, if you already there, just turn on the tube and give her a blanket around 9 ish, i'm sure she'll crash on her own, and either leave her there, or carry to bed.
2007-06-22 15:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by tw9165 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always ask your charges parents what the child's schedule is. Also, ask if there are any special needs the child has or any special rituals. Not only will it make your job easier it will earn you points as an excellent sitter.
2007-06-22 15:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by mafiosu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she will want you to put him to bed, most 5 yr olds have a well established bedtime and it will probably not be a problem.
2007-06-22 15:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by parental unit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is always best to ask the parent they bed time rules and dinner time and get into details because it often sends a more resondable appears to the parents which will take a little stress of them to allow them to enjoy their night a little more
2007-06-27 12:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Check w/ her mom about all of this:
are they allowed an evening or bedtime snack?
what time you should begin the bedtime process (brushing teeth, getting pajamas on and such)
are there any bedtime rituals that help them sleep easier? (read story, nursery rhymes, etc.)
good luck, I hope it goes well
2007-06-22 15:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...its your responsibility to ask them when the kids need to go to bed...and sometimes they will tell you before they leave..(if you didnt ask) but for kids...their bed time is NO LATER THAN 9....its usually 8 or 8.30...but you should ask them..
2007-06-27 17:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by vicnbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋