I am pregnant with my 3rd boy. When he is born, my oldest will be 6 and my other little guy will be 2 1/2. Should this new baby get a shower? Ive been doing a lot of reading & some people think its completely acceptable; others think its just not done. Without even asking for a shower, my step-mom said that she wouldnt throw me one. In her opinion its just not appropriate. To me that sounds like shes saying this baby is not as important or worthy of a party, gifts, etc. The thing is, my first two boys didnt have nice things to begin with or they are getting old. I rcvd a new travel system for my 1st son, which was passed down to my 2nd. The thing is now 6-years-old & really worn. Our 1st crib was used, cheap & didnt last long. Our 2nd crib was used too & is not in good shape. The hand-me-down bassinette I used for both of them fell apart long ago. I also was not expecting to get pregnant again, so I no longer have any baby clothes (Im not a pack-rat). Thoughts? Opinions?
2007-01-18
08:52:12
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26 answers
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J.Lew
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