Or the people that have used such methods are "lazy"/"mean"/etc.? When my daughter was developmentally ready (at four months, this varies for different babies), and she had demonstrated that she COULD go to sleep on her own but WOULDN'T because she relied on sleep crutches, we decided to try Dr. Ferber's method. It wasn't half as bad as the pregnancy forums made it out to be. On the contrary it involves a lot of work from the parents. You don't just leave the baby "to cry it out all alone/in despair/etc.". To work, you have to set up a consistent calming routine, be it story/bath/feed, and THEN you put them into the crib drowsy, yet awake. Of course the baby will fuss/cry, and you do intervene, but eventually the baby learns how to close their eyes and fall asleep. It makes parents become aware of their babies cries and learn how to decipher which is protesting, pain, etc. my seven month old falls asleep on her own, and throughout the night, even travelling and rarely cries now
2007-01-31
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MomofOneSpnkyGrl
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