My son is 25 and has a child to a girl who has another child from a previous relationship. He's not working, lacks confidence, is drinking and he seems to be so far away emotionally. My daughter is 22 and has been in a relationship with a man who is over 40. I don't have a problem with the age but she seems to be manipulated by him. He calls her several times a day and sometimes up to 3am which disturbs my sleep. They break up and go back together every week, he won't allow her to have male friends and went through her laptop recently to find her yahoo chat friends, he was angry over it. I guess I can't do much about their lives as I have exhausted myself trying. I have studied at uni for years to become a teacher and I have 1 year left, I'm scared that I will not be able to keep a job because this has been so consuming. My mother tells me I will never have my own life. I wanted to teach in rural areas but there's little chance of that. I'm 43, no relationship and no friends, HELP!
2007-02-02
12:38:26
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