My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for 2.
I am 24, he is 26.
We went to college, bought a house, have careers and have traveled all over.
We are homebodies, love to spend time together and visit our family.
Our relationship is very stable and we are ready to start a family.
When friends of mine find out about our plans to have a baby soon then say really discouraging things.
They will say they love their children, but it strained their relationship and the changes a child causes brings a lot of tension.
They say to cherish all the time I can spend with my husband without children.
These friends were not married before getting pregnant, and were together for only 1-2 years when they had their child.
Why does it seem like my friends think having children are bad?
Why do they discourage us from bringing a child into a happy and stable marriage?!
2006-09-29
11:03:57
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