how can i give custody of my baby to my boyfriend?

Question

social services wants my child taken away bc of problems im having how do i go about a simple quick way of giving custody to my boyfriend and also if my boyfriend comes here and takes my baby and i sign papers and have thm notarized and he leaves across state lines can he be in trouble for kidnapping?

Answer 1

Sounds like you need a lawyer. Don't let him go accross states lines with your baby unless you want to get him in trouble and make it impossible for him to have custody anyway. Unless he is the father, he doesn't have rights and the court will have to decide if he is fit to take care of your baby or not.

Answer 2

children's services will ASK you WHO you want the baby placed with. Then they will look into said persons background and make SURE that person in able to care 4 the child. THEY will arrange the court dates and help the bf with getting at least temporary custody. If he is gave a open case he should not leave state he will be required to allow home visits and to tell CPS where he is. If he is not up to there standards if he has a drug problem or dose not have a stable home look into letting someone else care 4 the baby.

Answer 3

Giving custody of your child to your boyfriend would require giving up your own custodial rights. Letting your child go to a foster home while you sort out your life is temporary and you will usually get your child back as soon as you prove that you are able to care for the child.

Obviously you do not trust your boyfriend because you are afraid he will take the child away. If you give him custody, he can take the child wherever he wants and there is no guarantee that you will get the child back.

Answer 4

If you have nothing in writing that says he can not take the child out of state then it's not kidnapping. I suggest you find someone to help you out legally because the state may not ok your boyfriend getting custody. Nothing is ever simple and quick when it comes to child custody.

Answer 5

His mothers and fathers could not get custody of the youngster. in case you had some severe difficulty like have been neglecting the toddler or have been a drug addict or lived in a crack homestead according to probability your boyfriend would desire to. yet oftentimes they don't take custody from the mum of a youngster without solid reason, fantastically to not supply it to an underage father. additionally if the daddy would not care in any respect I doubt they might even attempt to get custody realistically. in the event that they do reason issues, attempt to get a solid criminal expert and record any misbehavior or undesirable parenting he shows. If he concurs to sign the beginning certificates with that call, it is going to be wonderful. His mothers and fathers would be unable to do something approximately no count if or not he signs and indicators the beginning certificates/affidavit of paternity even nonetheless he's a minor. yet whilst he won't sign with the call which you fairly prefer, you will desire to easily circulate away him off or refuse to sign the papers until eventually he concurs to what you prefer. you would be unable to place his call on as father without his permission.

Answer 6

I dont think it would matter if he got custody of your child!!..Are you doing this so you can still be with your kid...just he has Legal Custody??..If so if they are taking your kid, Your probably only going to be able to have supervised visits (depending on what you did, and the circumstances)...If they find out what you did they can take your kid for good..then you will NEVER see your baby!!!..Be smart about the whole thing...Do whatever you need to do to get him back! 10-1 You'll be a family again soon!!

Good Luck Hun

Answer 7

You're apparently not blessed with much in the way of good sense, are you. Ask social services to help you with determining what's in the best interest of your child. Without you in the picture there is nothing that makes your child safe in your boyfriends care. Working with social services will make it easier to recover your child when you get your act together; if that ever happens.

Answer 8

I think you need to ask social services that. Are you sure your boyfriend is the best person to take care of you children? Good luck with your problems, remember there are a lot of ways and people willing to help out there, you just have to let them.

Answer 9

You can go through the courts and give him temp custody unless if he is not the bio father and then the bio father would get the kids. And for moving across states not unless he doesn't have custody but if he does then it means he can take them anywhere unless stated in papers.

Answer 10

Dont give your baby to your boyfriend. There was a woman here who entrusted her daughter's wellbeing to her boyfriend while she went to Iraq to serve....she received a call some 8 or 9 months later saying she had to come home because her daughter was ill. When she left her daughter, she was a normal weight for her age (I think she was 8 or 9 years old, and normal weight is around 60-80 lbs). When she returned, her daughter weighed only about 25 pounds. Her boyfriend, whom she trusted to provide and care for her daughter, STARVED that poor girl almost to death. The pictures were enough to make me sick to my stomach.

Please let this be a lesson....if you do not know or trust your boyfriend well enough, PLEASE have a family member or a good good friend take care of your child. Or have your child put in foster care until your problems are taken care of!