My husband has borderline personality disorder and now it is believed he has rad...reactive attachment disorder, as well. I looked up the symptoms and believe there may be reason for concern especially since he lacks understanding of cause and affect as well as having a lack of empathy for others. For example, when our youngest was two, he grabbed a butcher knife I had left on the counter, I know...that was stupid...My husband saw him take it and run off with it. All he did about it was say, "Well, you'll learn to put things away when he stabs someone or falls on it and dies." I yelled, "grab it from him." He responded, "You get it, you are the one who left it out...." I can't understand that behavior. Our other older children couldn't understand it either. It was obvious to all of us that the risk of the baby's getting injured meant nothing to him so much as the fact that "I" was the one who had made a mistake. How dangerous is he? Could he kill us in our sleep? Shoot us?
2007-08-19
13:47:48
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