I found out she has leukemia and it makes me so sad, because she has always been there for me through everything. I want to know what i can do to help her get through this? What can i do to cheer her up? I love her and i just want her to be well again. PLEASE HELP!
2007-08-19 12:48:51 · 9 answers · asked by SteveD 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
There is nothing you can do to cheer her up or make her better. The best thing you can do is to BE there for her. Just be there. Visit her. Ask her if you can do anything for her. Tell her you love her. You dont have to do anything extraordinary. Just be there for her and love her.
2007-08-19 12:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by jenniferaboston 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 12 year old sister was diagnosed with a childhood bone cancer in October, and I felt absolutely horrible. I'm extremely close with her, so I didn't know what to do. I spent a lot of time with her when she was home. I'd bring her "teen scene" magazines from the store and make her stuff. She really appreciated the stuff I made her and the magazines I brought. She would read them in the hospital and bring the homemade gifts with her too. My suggestion is just make something for your grandma to let you know you really care about what is going on with her and you are there for her. It can be as simple as a card, or even make her a friendship bracelet or something. Give her a book, write her a poem. It's often the homemade things they appreciate more, because they know you really care about what's happening and you want to cheer them up.
I'm really sorry about your grandma! I hope all goes well. Just let her know that you love her so much with a gift, especially homemade, and I'm sure she will understand you wish her all the best.
2007-08-19 19:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your grandmother. You can be a big help to her with quiet, consistent, support. You could grocery shop for her, help with her household chores, offer to take her to her doctor's appointments, bring over a funny movie to watch with her if she feels like it.
It's important to remember, though, that someone newly diagnosed with cancer can feel completely overwhelmed at first. She may say she doesn't want/need anything right now. Listen to her and respect her wishes, and don't try to force anything, no matter how well-meaning your intentions are.
Sometimes family members try to take over a person's life when he or she becomes ill. Keep in mind that she is still in charge of her life and can make her own decisions. Take your cues from her on how best to help her.
Good luck, and God bless you both!
2007-08-19 21:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by meatpiemum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be very supportive at all times. Even when she's trying to give up keep a positive attitude with it all. That's the best thing you can do for her.
I pray that all goes well for your grandmother and you.
2007-08-19 21:00:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in the position to do tasks, chores for her, it can make like a little easier for her. Bring her flowers, but especially bring yourself. She needs to know she is surrounded by loved ones and that they love her.
2007-08-20 09:44:33 · answer #5 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blood cancer? Not alot you can do. Be a comfort to her, take her mind off it when you can....tell her that you appreciate her kindness and that kind of stuff. Helps her mind the most Attitude is everything when sick....it is hard to keep it positive.
2007-08-19 20:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be there for her and let you know you care by running errands and doing chores for her and you might even learn Reiki and help her thorugh her tough times...
2007-08-19 19:54:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's where you'll find the best info:
http://www.leukemia-lymphoma.org/hm_lls
Also, there's a great gift shop at:
http://www.choosehope.com
Best wishes
2007-08-22 10:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by Char 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her.,doing simple things.she will have good days and bad days.if you are in the UK its not nessarily a death sentence,this can be treated.tell her you love her and want her well again.contact action cancer UK, and may GOD bless you both
2007-08-19 19:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by TREVOR B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋