Health - 20 August 2007

Ok, yesterday I found out that my boyfriend has been anorexic for two years, and has been admitted to hospital twice in the past for suicide attempts and serious malnutrition.

Yesterday we went to a party at a friends place, and he ended up wasted, and got violent with people trying to move him outside into the fresh air. (Almost kicking an 8 month pregnant woman in the process)
When he'd calmed down he ended up lying on the floor telling me that he hated himself and I shouldn't love him.

I'm at a complete wits end, because I love him so much and hate to see him hurting so much, at only 16 years of age, he's developed the problems that not even an adult should have to deal with.
But I now accept that he needs professional help, and that there's only so much I can do as a 14 year old girl.
Does anyone have any suggestions of people I could get in touch with to help him, or anyone I could contact for advice or support?

And his parents, quite frankly, are useless. Help?

2007-08-20 23:59:04 · 17 answers · asked by emo_dollface 1 in Mental Health

i keep on getting this pain in the lower right bit of my stomach its been coming and going for like a month now it doesn't hurt that much yesterday i had a really bad stomach ache after eating loadza cheesecake and 2dai the pain is in the lower right bit i also have a runny nose and a fever(had it for a week) and feel really cold i don't really feel like eating yesterday it got worse but the went away after 3 hours and also have have pushed down on and then let go but i don't have any pain when i let go and also i can jump and it doesn't hurt 2daii the pain is dull and still feels like a knife stabbing i am supposed to start my periods 2dai but haven't also sometimes the pain goes to the other side

2007-08-20 23:53:46 · 2 answers · asked by bolly786 1 in Pain & Pain Management

Your butt is wide, well mine is too
Just watch your mouth or I'll sit on you
The word is out, better treat me right
'Cause I'm the king of cellulite
Ham on, ham on, ham on whole wheat, all right

My zippers bust, my buckles break
I'm too much man for you to take
The pavement cracks when I fall down
I've got more chins than Chinatown

Well, I've never used a phone booth
And I've never seen my toes
When I'm goin' to the movies
I take up seven rows

Because I'm fat, I'm fat, come on
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know I'm fat, I'm fat, you know it
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know I'm fat, I'm fat, come on you know
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
Don'tcha call me pudgy, portly or stout
Just now tell me once again who's fat

When I walk out to get my mail
It measures on the Richter scale
Down at the beach I'm a lucky man
I'm the only one who gets a tan
If I have one more pie a la mode
I'm gonna need my own zip code

When you're only having seconds
I'm having twenty-thirds
When I go to get my shoes shined
I gotta take their word

Because I'm fat, I'm fat, sha mone
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know I'm fat, I'm fat, you know it
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know I'm fat, I'm fat, you know it you know
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
And my shadow weighs forty-two pounds
Lemme tell you once again who's fat

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If you see me comin' your way
Better give me plenty space
If I tell you that I'm hungry
Then won't you feed my face

Because I'm fat, I'm fat, come on
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know I'm fat, I'm fat, you know it
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know I'm fat, I'm fat, you know it, you know
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
Woo woo woo, when I sit around the house
I really sit around the house

You know I'm fat, I'm fat, come on
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know I'm fat, I'm fat, you
know it, you know it
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know, you know, you know, come on
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
And you know all by myself I'm a crowd
Lemme tell you once again

You know I'm huge, I'm fat, you know it
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know I'm fat, you know, hoo
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
You know I'm fat, I'm fat, you know it, you know
(Fat, fat, really really fat)
And the whole world knows I'm fat and I'm proud
Just tell me once again who's fat

2007-08-20 23:50:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Diet & Fitness

I'm a virgin and lately my over the last year my cramps have been getting extremly worst. I have a really hard time getting throught work with them. I cant walk really or even move it hurt so bad. And ive been getting clotts and pink tissues in my blood,after I get that tissue on my pad my cramps dissappear. Is this normal?

2007-08-20 23:46:12 · 7 answers · asked by Katsol 2 in Women's Health

2007-08-20 23:40:31 · 6 answers · asked by lucius_sorrow 1 in Cancer

Sometimes I am happy! Other times I am sad and cry! Then I am pissed and yell. The smallest noise gets on my nerves. I feel so BLAH but when I leave the house i put on a smile and prtend everything is ok. Then I return home and back in a pissy mood. I cry for no reason sometimes. I yell for when I shouldnt. My patience is low!

2007-08-20 23:40:25 · 6 answers · asked by sweetjoa76 2 in Other - Health

At night I have a fan on in my room amd the air on aswell but I am still hot.

2007-08-20 23:37:31 · 11 answers · asked by sweetjoa76 2 in Other - Health

will it be a quiet night out, literally?

2007-08-20 23:34:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mental Health

I mean,of course the best way is to have a check.But does anyone know if is possible to understand through symptoms or phisical appearence and how many years or months,it takes before it causes serious problems?Please no joking on this :))

2007-08-20 23:30:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in STDs

My bf has been told by the nurse that a tiny blood trae was found in his urine- he has to wait 7 days for the resukts. What can it be?

2007-08-20 23:30:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Diseases

I asked my urologist and he didnt know

2007-08-20 23:29:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Men's Health

2007-08-20 23:27:05 · 4 answers · asked by mike 1 in Men's Health

2007-08-20 23:21:31 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cancer

& i m down . mostly listen 2 sad songs sitting lonely
sometimes cry
sometimes wonder..... uh

2007-08-20 23:20:41 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Mental Health

2007-08-20 23:19:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cancer

2007-08-20 23:17:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cancer

I've ended my period, and i have this yellowish (not yellow yellow) discharge for three days or so already, it does smell a little. I've never had sex before. What is this? Should I go to the doctors?

2007-08-20 23:16:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

Please?? School is in a week..and I need the sleep!

2007-08-20 23:16:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Health

2007-08-20 23:16:14 · 7 answers · asked by muzikmills@sbcglobal.net 1 in Mental Health

i am on my period, but VERY lightly...i feeel VERY itchy on my pussy like where i insert the tampon to the point where its driving me crazy and i have to rub it or itch it kinda and then when i do i feel like i have to pee but then i go to pee and one little drop comes out, literally..and when i try to go to sleep i feel like i have to pee pretty much all the time...idk what the hell is going on but its driving me CRAZY and i need it to go away!

2007-08-20 23:09:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Women's Health

2007-08-20 22:57:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Optical

I have a friend with Diabetes type 2, and she has a blood sugar level of 500. Is this normal or is this a concern

2007-08-20 22:56:12 · 15 answers · asked by andaria@sbcglobal.net 2 in Diabetes

ive being to the doctor loads of times she just provides a cream it works for awhile but it comes back i hate going back to her as its very embrasing flashing my *** at her but im tired of it but i never get any answers to what it is

2007-08-20 22:53:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Health

huh ??

hehe :)

2007-08-20 22:52:55 · 10 answers · asked by oye !! 4 in Other - Health

2007-08-20 22:52:13 · 8 answers · asked by Bee 2 in Women's Health

WHAT ABOUT YOU ?HAVE EVER DONE ANY experiment ABOUT THIS BY YOURSELF? My highest record 3 days.OMG!!!

2007-08-20 22:48:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Diet & Fitness

Did you know that laughing boosts the immune system, lowers blood pressure and reduces stress hormones? Laughing can also burn up to 2.31 calories a minute! It therefore pays to laugh a litttle every day! Seemingly, the average child laughs 300 to 400 times a day, but the average adult only laughs about 15 times. If you're feeling a little down or miserable, dust off your sense of humour, take a deep breath and laugh! By embracing the spirit of laughter, it’s possible to achieve a more positive outlook. And if you hear a good joke share it with us today so we can all have a good laugh too.

2007-08-20 22:45:07 · 7 answers · asked by pollyanna 6 in Mental Health

The problem is this:
I have diabetes, and I need to test my blood sugar using test strips. These test strips can only be used once, and then must be thrown out. I have a cold, and bad blood sugar, and I needs to test as much as I can! But when I go to my pharmacy and order them, a women name Enigma says I can't have them, but eventuall I explained why I used so many, and she wrote down that I could have them on Monday. I also ordered insulin (medicine for diabetes blood suagr) and needles to inject the insulin. On Monday the chimist said no one ever ordered test strips, and my insulin and needles were all wrong! I need test srips, but I have none now! I'm 14, and I don't know what to do! Please help me!

2007-08-20 22:43:23 · 12 answers · asked by Igneus 1 in Diabetes

why?

2007-08-20 22:35:13 · 2 answers · asked by boo 1 in Other - Health

2007-08-20 22:27:15 · 2 answers · asked by Abim 1 in Women's Health