i m shy .are u ?

Question

& i m down . mostly listen 2 sad songs sitting lonely
sometimes cry
sometimes wonder..... uh

I am 19 and ........a loser

Cant talk 2 gals even being good looking

Answer 1

you keep being shy...because some pretty girls LOVE that in a guy..they don't like the 'fly' guys who talk bs all the time..the right girl is going to come along, and she will love you so much, because that is who you are, and she will do all of the talking...just be patient, and i bet there is one right now, who is a little shy also...just waiting to give you a big kiss

Answer 2

You are saying that you are shy, and my guess is that you are lonely listening to sad Songs, and sometimes crying? If as you say you are 19, I wonder if you have Parents that may be able to help you with the depression you must have. When a person feels the way you do, and they think it is the end of the World for them, than what you, should do is find a clinic or a Doctor so, he might be able to help you with medication to combat this Depression you must be feeling. What you need to do also, is by telling yourself that you will fight whatever it is that is trying to fill you up with negative thoughts. Go out of your House even a walk will do you good, and give yourself a pep talk, and I am sure you will be able to fight this illness you are having. I know how you must be feeling because it happened to me also, about Four years ago, My oldest Grandson, who was 23 years old at the time, was murdered by some inmates, in a Nuevo Laredo, Mexico Jail, they stabbed him 87, times all over his Body. I can write that down, and I can tell about the tragedy, now but not before. We, my family and I suffered because of it, I went into depression, since he was my oldest Grandson, I had, and I practically helped my daughter raised him when he was a Baby. I had no control over me, what I usually did was cry my eyes out, and did not even want to eat or do anything, but there comes a time when God, says enough is enough, and I started to get better, telling myself that I was no wimp, and my grandson, might be sad for what was happening to me, after that day, I started getting better, and better, that I can finally say I, am glad I am well enough to appreciate what God had done for all of us. We are still waiting for justice to be served, because we are sure that my Grandson would want it.

Answer 3

this coould be because of a number of things. Firstly, if there are any changes life ther is a process of change which charts a graph and is a recognised process every one goes through. Often we get stuck at the depression stage and cant move on to accept the change, test the situation, anternalise and move on. If we become stuck for several things in life it can be difficult to work things out and usually talking to some one helps. This is linked to self esteem and there is a lot of writing on this subject. Depression can be caused by various other factors too. if this is more than monday morning blues, or an unfufiled life then it is important to know you are not alone. talk to others, it may be you have a condion, clinical depression or indeed indoginous depression, the latter being dificult to diagnose because there is no recognised cause. Check the web for forums

Answer 4

hey common don be shy
just face the world
go c all the beautiful things
tht this world has to show u
just enjoy ur life coz u get it once n this time which is goin is never ever goin to come back
so get out of ur shyness n be bold

i know its not easy but its never too late to try dear
don cry mebbe some one loves ur smile
mebbe u cannot talk to other specially gurls
but
be happy on ur own y be sad
just go out alone face the world
go out for mebbe juz a walk listning to music
watch a good movie alone or best wid frnds
help others like this on yahoo answers
play games on pc
go for a ride or a drive
read good encouraging books
try to change ur style n
once try changing the music u listen to il tell u something do it okay

when u listen to music put on some loud good music n dance n sing along lodly wid the song trust me ull enjoy it n ull get outta all this ...
and if thrs anything else or mebbe anyone else whos making ur life sad leave tht person/thing behind the world has lot more things to do n lot more good ppl to meet too
so get ahead of tht sadness ....
go enjoy

im sure ull come out of this
n if thrs anything else juz ask don worry be happy
all the best

Answer 5

first stop sitting around listening 2 sad songs.that's not good 4 any1. try 2 find someone that likes the same things u do.being shy is 1 thing but hiding from life is another.is there someone u like if so work your way up 2 talking 2 them.sometimes it takes me a while 2 warm up 2 people.but u have 2 try.just because it doesnt work the frist time doesnt mean u should stop trying.

Answer 6

Hi Ricks! Cheer up. We all had good and bad days. When I was in school, college and then proffessional Institute I considered myself to be the most stupid fellow but In myself I had the conviction that I can be the best if I devote totally to my studies since it was the only tool I have. I too was very shy more than U. I trembled to talk to girls. But now I am a complete man not less than any of my contemporaries.

Answer 7

Darling it is so much easier to see the bad than good especially if you are use to hearing of the bad.

Write down what makes you - you - the good!
Go ahead write down the bad - then write down what you could do to change it - then baby go ahead and change it - if you want.

You are the only one that can make yourself feel this way - and if you are allowing someone to help contribute than you too are to blame.

God doesn't make trash - we do but with all things we can change it.

Keep your head high write down your goals and go for it! You can do it - God put you here for a reason - find that reason and run with it!

Answer 8

I was shy as a kid, always thought something was wrong with me. I was in my 30's before i discovered that being an introvert was just the way i interacted with the world.

You need to find non-judgmental people you can confide in to help you get out and deal with the world. I am still learning coping skills, as well as learning how to respond to situations "normally." A friend, parent, or mentor can help you troubleshoot your responses to social situations.

Most importantly, find someone to talk to, and find reasons to get out of your room. Mistakes hurt, but you can learn from them.

Answer 9

Being down is not being shy. You sound depressed.
Shake up your program stop listening to down music. Change the colors you wear. Make your self smile you can snap out of it. Life is much to short to invest in depression. If you can't snap out of it see your Dr.

Answer 10

Hey ricks, get a life. You can't be sitting in there and be all sorry. What's up? Life's too short. See a psychologist if you're down and under and have lots of issues but don't waste your young life.