Last week, my boyfriend proposed. I'm 23, he's 27. I was so happy and loved the ring. But a couple of days ago, I accidently came across documents and the recipt from the jewellers he got my ring from, and was shocked to find out the ring cost just over 10 grand. Worried he had taken out a loan or something, and would probably get into debt, I told him what i'd found. He then said to me "Don't worry about it, I used my savings". He'd saved up that money since he started his first job, and now most of it's gone. I know he was the one who choose to spend that much, but I feel so guilty everytime I look at my ring. I love my ring, but a ring isn't what's important to me. I want him to return my ring so he gets his savings back. I want him to spend the money on himself and do things he enjoys, as he's the one the earnt it. But I don't know how to tell him that. Am I being ungratefull?
2007-10-24
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