i'm starting to plan a wedding for next year, but my fiance doesn't want his mother there. she lives on the several states away, and i've never met her.
he told me that she had some emotional problems, cheated on his father, and then met a man on the internet and abandoned them when he was 14, he's only seen her once since then than hasn't talked to her since christmas (she calls, but he doesn't answer). he said that she didn't show up to his sister's weddings, but that was because she was out of the country for one, and she was in a car wreck for the other. he doesn't think she'd show up, but he doesn't even want to invite her for fear that she will show up and start drama.
so which do you think will result in more problems, not inviting her, and her finding out we're married a few months down the road, or inviting her and having her make him miserable?
2007-07-06
05:22:10
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