About a year ago, my boyfriend and I got engaged; we immediately set the date for late October 2007. The night that we announced our engagement to our parents, I excitedly called many of my friends to tell them the good news. Along the way, I mentioned to a few of my closer girl friends that I wanted them to be bridesmaids, including a girl I've been okay friends with for a few years. In the year since then, we've hardly spoken to her at all...or rather,she's hardly spoken to us. If I call her, she only talks for a few minutes, and never calls me back; if I comment her on MySpace or Facebook she doesn't respond;and all in all, we've grown apart immensely. At the same time,my sister and I,who were never very close before, have gotten very close and talk very often. I would really like to replace the mutual friend with my sister,but I don't know if there's any tactful way to handle the situation other than just accepting it. Am I stuck with this fair-weather friend as a bridesmaid?
2007-07-23
09:24:29
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Sara J
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