We've been together 4 years, and it has been mostly great. I think about marriage a lot. But I am someone that needs to move around and be in a place where the outdoors is at my fingertips. She's moved with me twice already. The place I want to move next, I am super excited for, but she has decided she hates it. Neither of us has ever been there; I've based my decision to move there on job market, recreation, and housing cost research. Basically, it's a ski town that hasn't blown up yet, yet also has some urban character and is in the state I want to be in. She says, "let's move anywhere but there." I'm not sure how to respond to her--I've set my mind to going there; I've idealized it to the point where it would cause me great regret to not at least give it a shot. I know I would regret losing her over this, but it's coming close to now or never for us. Neither of us know specifically what we want to do for work--our careers aren't tying us to any particular place. What to do?
2007-03-21
06:32:51
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Drew
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