I am having a destination wedding, and to keep costs low I am having 1 bridesmaid, thus she is my Maid of Honor. The only guests at the wedding will by my parents, and my MOH, so this is an important position. 2 months before the wedding she informs me she is engaged to a guy that she doesn't know (lives in different state, only talk on the phone) & she is busy planning the wedding. I understand she's busy, but honestly the fact that she is marrying this guy sickens me. It is hard to watch my best friend make such a big mistake, & she won't listen to my advice. I do not want to call her to talk about the wedding, b/c she always talks about him. I cannot imagine spending a week with her on her all-expense-paid vacation that I'm giving her. I get the impression that she's going to try to make me pay for him to go, and guilt me if I don't. She hasn't planned a shower, or helped out at all thus far. Do I fire her? Is is appropriate for me to ask someone else with just 2 months notice?
2007-03-21
08:35:10
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