how can i check on the web the background of my fiance ?

Question

thank so much for all your answers, the reason is because two friends told me that he is married in coronado ca, that he left his wife no kids. he said that is a lie. but he seems to overreact when i ask him, he is a arab muslim and am catholic american, i dont mind the diferences in race or religion but i do in honesty, i rather know now and finish the relationship and not later . thanks again for all your help. :)

Answer 1

Hi,
Well, you can use http://governmentrecords.co.nr , to check all background,court and criminal records , its a great site,

Hope this helps

Answer 2

Why would you want to do that? I mean what is your reasoning, behind it?
Without a reason, there should be no need. Maybe their are things in this person past, that may bring up old heartaches, or worse.
Maybe this person would just forget.
If you don't trust the person, then why get together with them in the first place?
Sometimes, its bestto letthe past ,be. Because if you bring it, up. then it causes more problems, for both persons. And someone always gets hurt.
And it usaully, the one who trust the other the most. Arwe yo uwilling to sacrifec, your relationship over this?
And ,what if you did, do one. And suppose, you find nothing,. Would it be fair to them?
Would you tell them you did? And are you willing to violate their trust in you?
People. are so worried about what someone may have done, that they forget. if its worth the pain and heartache. People are so paranoid, now days.
If they can't trust, another, then they can't trust themself.

Answer 3

You Can Always ASK This Person Everything You Need TO Know! What Relationship Do You Have since You Can't talk to the LOVE of ur life?

Answer 4

I would call your county registrars office and tell them that you are engaged to a man but you think that he might be married already, marriages are a part of public record and they would be able to tell you how to go about finding if he is married or not, they might be able to tell you themselves. They might need some information though, like where he was married and his wifes name, so try to think of all the info they might want and have it on hand for them with proper spellings.

Good luck, I hope it turns out in your favor and its just a rumor. I cant imagine how devistating that would be to find out.

Answer 5

First, don't trust the internet. Hire a PI (Private Investigator) to do it for you. The results will be more accurate and you may save time and $.

Second, ditto to what everyone above me said. You're not ready.

Answer 6

if you want to do a background investigation on your fiance, then why in the world are you marrying him?
seems there are some trust issues and its better for you to just get out of the relationship!

Answer 7

Ummmm if you have decided to marry this person then why do you need a background check. If you are feeling that she/he is not being honest about something then you need to deal with it with that person. Everyone has something in their past. What's in your closet?????

Answer 8

Oh wow, if you need to check his background why did you say yes to marrying him in the first place.

Answer 9

Intelius.com,put in zabba search 1st it's a site if you're looking for old friends,and then you'll see the sighn that says not enough info go to www.intelius.com and you put in his name and everything it's not that much and it will show you everything.

Answer 10

wow...are things that bad? if not why don't you just ask whatever you want to knw?... if you have to go behind their back and do searches... seems like there is no trust in the relationship..