My fiance's White female friend of five years can't stand Black women but she loves Black men. Although I believe that it's because she's very insecure and is somehow threatened by Black women, my man always finds himself defending African-American females from her sterotypes. She knows about our wedding but feels hurt that my man invited everyone else except her on account of me so that there isn't any tension at the wedding. Should I invite her and kill her with kindness, or should I leave the decision up to my fiance? Or should I leave things the way they are? Afterall, if the girl can accept only one race's gender and is not accepting of the entire race, then is she not worth thinking about, especially on a day that's not her own?
P.S.
Before anyone starts assuming, no, they were never an item, they never messed around, and yes, I trust him.
2006-11-14
09:14:00
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wrtrchk
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