I've been engaged to a man 13 yrs older than me for a year. We have been together for 1-1/2 years.
I was never in love with him, but after many failed relationships and painful ones, I decided no one would ever love me and treat me as well as him, and so I said yes.
We moved to another state together and are living and working together now. We get along great, have a wonderful friendship, but there is little to no attraction for me any more.
Our sex life is almost non existant (1x per month, and sometimes not even that often), because I just am never in the mood for him. I fantasize about other men sometimes, however, I can see him as the father of my future children.
I dont think I'm ready to settle down with him, & I'm not planning a wedding so I can prolong making a final life decision, but I don't wanna lose a great guy and regret it later. I am so torn, and have been in limbo almost since the day he proposed. Should I move on? Or should I try to work it out?
2006-10-10
18:04:11
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