For the past three years I have maintained a father-son relationship with my ex-girlfriend's son. We started dating shortly after he was born and I am the only father that he knows. The relationship between my ex and I didn't work, primarily because she was still in love with the child's, whom I consider to be my son, father and she suffers from what her family seems to think is bipolar disorder. Anyway, during our relationship my ex was always very selfish, evil and spiteful and would always go back on her word. Earlier this month I married the woman of my dreams. I really wanted to have her son (whom I love as if he were my own son) serve as my ring bearer. However, knowing my ex the way I do, I was concerned that she might object or cause problems at the wedding. As a result I thought it would be best not to travel down that path so I opted to have my nephew serve instead. Now she has forbidden me from having any contact with the child. Was I wrong for doing this?
2006-06-28
17:15:53
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