2006-06-28 10:35:55 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Maybe he's not that into you.
Maybe he doesn't know he is that into you.
If you are having sex already, as the saying goes, 'Why should he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free?"
Anyhow if he's not thinking in that direction. Start to pull away and if he doesn't mind leave him.
There may be someone who will love you more and want to marry you more than they even want to breathe.
God Bless You,
2006-06-28 10:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why the divorce rate is so high. A chick is wanting to do some things (i.e. stuff she wouldn't normally do) to convince a guy to propose. So once he proposes, blinded by these "things"...then you stop doing them, his expectations are no longer being met and you start to have problems...all because you manipulated him for this sick desire to be married.
Just let things happen naturally. Are you under some kind of time limit or something?
2006-06-28 10:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is having a problem with proposing to you, maybe he is not ready. Have you ever ask him what his intentions are? the two of you should be able to talk to each other and have the situation out in the open. Good luck.
2006-06-28 10:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Don't try to force or coerce someone into doing something that serious, that they may not really want to do. If he wants to marry you, he'll propose. If he doesn't propose, then assume, no matter how much he may like or love you, he's not prepared to marry you.
2006-06-28 10:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont, you sit back and wait! if he wants you to marry him he will ask you. if not, he wont ask you. HOPEFULLY you are not giving him all the "benefits" of marriage if you are waiting on him to propose, he probably NEVER will! he has no reason to.
if he's already getting everything, why should he committ himself if he has nothing else to look forward to?
if you really want to see where he is, tell him that you no longer want to play house, give him an ultimatum (get married or leave, that is if you guys are living together)
2006-06-28 10:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by heresthedeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont. Thats the simple answer. You want it to be straight from his heart, his mind. You can talk about marriage and ask him how he feels, but if you want him to propose then you wait. Bummer I know, but if he is not ready and you are then there is no sense in pushing him...you wouldnt want him to do it just because you wanted him to right?
2006-06-28 10:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start hinting about wanting to start a family, having a house, and settling down. If he is really serious about you, and smart, he will propose.
2006-06-28 10:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you will have to wait if you want him to or you could propose to him the worst would be no.
2006-06-28 10:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by car4423 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can never get someone to propose to you they have to want to do it but if its something you want drop small hints tell him its something you would like to do and ask if he would to in the future, if you dont think you can ask him if this is what he wants then really is this the man for you, i assume you are really young and have your whole life ahead dont waste it and rush into marriage it will come along when mr right comes , marriage is all about trust and if you dont think you can talk to him about your feelings he aint mr right
2006-06-28 10:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by happymum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel that you have to "Get" him to propose to you..then maybe its best that the relationship not take the next level. If he feels that hes ready to settle down with you permanently, he'll let you know
2006-06-28 10:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋