Singles & Dating - 28 December 2007

I had this man cheat on me and I am still with him. Do you think i should of forgave him or let him go.

2007-12-28 08:28:08 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together a couple of years and we have great sex but she thinks she is still inadequate because she hasn't given me a 3some and my ex-wife did. I am all for them but I am pretty happy in my relationship so I really don't want to indulge but as a guy I would probably do so. She wants to do it with a stranger to and I am not even sure about how to go about that. Any suggestions on what to tell her or where to meet a woman who would help her fulfill this so we can go on with our lives. I know that any guys who read this will not understand but woman please answer.

2007-12-28 08:22:51 · 7 answers · asked by Average joe 93 1

like what do people mean by 1st base 2nd base etc, what are they to you?

2007-12-28 08:22:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont know why, but i LOVE the smell of most, but not all, females feet. i had this girlfriend once and her feet smell drove me insane! she had such perfect feet and smelled so good! i wanted to do things with it and i did =) i know its a foot fetish, a smelly foot fetish that is. lol. ohh and the foot jobs are the best with smelling one foot and the other, doing you know what. lol! ever know of anyone like this?

2007-12-28 08:21:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I have had a crush on this guy for so long about 7 years since grade 4 know I am in grade 10 okay we were kind of close talking and everything he would flirt with me to like I hate the feel of sand stone it gives me the chills and we had to study rocks together in grade 4 and I told him I wasn't touching it (of course that was the rock we got assigned) and he asked why and I told him that I gave me the chills and he started rubbing it on my face and hand and leg and where ever just to freak me out and then laugh then stupid little things like that would happen in grade 5 he and I were standing under an umbrella outside at a ceremony with the school and I moved so his friend Tyler could stand under it and he would hit me in the head with the umbrella and laugh when I turned around. Other things like that would happen to in grade but in grade 7 hear was so sweet

2007-12-28 08:17:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, here's the deal. I have a first date with a lady that I have gotten to know pretty quickly. She and i hit it off right to start with, seem to have a lot in common and talk comes really easy. I met her at my friend's apartment, she is her next door neighbor. So I have been to her place twice now, we sat and talked for a looooong time. Her daughter was asleep. She is new to the area, doesn't really have anyone to babysit but wants to go out with me. So I offered to take her and her daughter out for a date. I love kids and don't mind it really. But should I be a little wary that this lady is already comfortable bringing her daughter along on our date, though i am the one that suggested it. I mean most stuff I have read about single moms tell the mom to take it very slooooow when introducing their kids to a potential man in their life. So should this be a red flag to me or is it possible she feels that comfortable that fast with me?

2007-12-28 08:14:24 · 6 answers · asked by O2BEFISHIN 1

ok...my Bf and i are bout' to go out to the movies and last time we went we kissed...but he used way to much tongue for my taste! How can I tell him w/o saying anything to not use to much....plz help me! thnx

2007-12-28 08:13:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl and i sometimes i stare at her and she to me, i have been sending her emails but she never writes back. only sometimes. Everytime i talk 2 her face to face, her face lites up with a huge beautiful smile. And i enjoy talking 2 her. when i talk to her it seems that she gets happy. But we don't talk much cuz we are both shy. But when we do talk its agood conversation. But I always start the conversation. I guess she is more shy than me. She doesnt really talk to guys alot. when it comes 2 emails she never writes back. this is very confusing. does she like me or not. i cant tell

2007-12-28 07:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've gotten a few phone calls.... but never went farther than a couple of dates.

Realized I have been in a lot of relationships and NONE of them were from me meeting some guy at a bar. Usually through friends... Bars and clubs to me are just places to randomly make out I guess.

Do you know of any successful relationships that actually form from meeting your signficant other at a bar or club?

2007-12-28 07:56:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

iVE BEEN WiTH MY BOYFRiEND FOR ALMOST A YEAR, i TOLD HiM i LOVED HiM AND HE TOLD ME i CARE ABOUT U BUT i STiLL DONT LOVE YOU. i FELT SO BAD!! i DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!! SHOULD i LEAVE HiM OR SHOULD i STAY??? HELP!!!

2007-12-28 07:48:13 · 42 answers · asked by luwezza_20 2

My boyfriend has his own place, about 40 minutes away from my house. I have my own car, but gas prices are CRAZY right now and I am burning so much gas all the time.
I always end up at his house because he has his own place, and I still live with my parents (he's 24, & I'm 21 but I'm in university & pay my own tuition which is why I live at home). It's getting so costly going there all the time, I'm spending $60 a week on gas. He has never once offered to help me pay for it and I've hinted so many times that it's costing me a lot. Should I expect him to help me pay for it or is this unreasonable? What should I do?? Help! Thanks :)

2007-12-28 07:45:36 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

Out of curiosity, based on a reply I gave a minute ago about whether or not I cheated or was cheated on-- I was wondering...

My husband and I have been together now for two and a half years with a break up at about the first year, we've only been married a little over a month (and it's great-- no problems now) but when we first got together he was still obssessed with his ex.

He had dreams about her every night (he actually said "Every Night"), he would call and check on her and just talk about her as if she was a goddess or the most evil schrew on earth.

I didn't like that he had such strong feelings for her (good or bad). I certainly didn't hate any of my exes because I really didn't care about whether or not those relationships worked out. Well, it all came to a boiling point where he would compare me to her and make me feel worthless. He just didn't seem happy with me.

2007-12-28 07:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by Avelyn 4

I am a very kind, intelligent, funny and very attractive female. When I go out, I get all of the stares, which sometimes makes me uncomfortable, especially when I'm out with other girlfriends. But that's ALL I get-no one will approach me or start conversation. The men that do approach me are usually intoxicated and below my standards.

I'm not talking about only at bars, anywhere mainly. People that I get to know and become friends with always say I'm so different than they thought I'd be. They thought I'd be a
"B_ _ _ _ ". How can I stop this? Do things differently? Be more approachable?

I know this may seem ridiculous-- the "pretty girl's problem", but it really IS a problem for me-everyday!

ANY help, thoughts from MEN AND WOMEN would be appreciated.

Thanks!

2007-12-28 07:36:14 · 51 answers · asked by bamboo 3

2007-12-28 07:31:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bumped into this guy I have known since high school at a bar one night (we are both late 20s)... ended up drinking, flirting and making out.

We really clicked. When I said goodbye, he said to me "I'll call you tomorrow, okay?"

I said "oh yea?"

He's like "definitely"

Hasnt called.

Why not?

2007-12-28 07:31:23 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 16 he is 15 and i am reasonably bigger both height and weight wise, i wanna do sexual stuff with him but i dont know if i want him to see my naked body or if tat could be awkward because of our size difference.

2007-12-28 07:29:28 · 12 answers · asked by Alyssa181 2

i like guys that are taken. and guys that dont like me. why?

2007-12-28 07:28:24 · 4 answers · asked by hottie30349 1

OK guys, do boys like girls that are not necessarily preppy, but they are cute, because all the boys the that I know only like hot girls. I'm getting kind of annoyed - do boys like girls that are witty, smart, and cute, or do they only like giggly, obnoxious, hollister- type girls??? I can be flirtatious if I want, but that is only sometimes. Basically what I am trying to ask is do boys like girls that are not typical preppy teenagers?

2007-12-28 07:28:09 · 8 answers · asked by Gracie 2

I asked this before but there was some confusion. I was talking about a job that pays like 16/hr not minimum wage. Of course I wouldn't expect a girl to stay with a guy who wouldn't try to find a job he could at least pay the rent with.

Taking this into consideration would you turn down a good looking guy if he made $15 to $20/ hr?

2007-12-28 07:27:35 · 14 answers · asked by wisemancumth 5

Ok I hope this doesnt sound too crazy, but here goes... I am 48 years old, and have met a Woman about a year ago thru the internet. We hit it off almost instantly! I am in love with her, and she is in love with me. We talk with each other on the phone everyday, we share photo's of each other, we webcam when we can. I can honestly say that our personality's are perfect for each other and I've never been so IN LOVE....EVER. So here are the Kickers! 1. She lives several states away! Lord knows I'd fly, drive, or walk there if I could!!! Ready for #2??? You sure???

She is on my mind 24/7! I'd lay my life down for her, in a heartbeat...ok ok here is #2
She is married with kids!!! As for me, I am single. I divorced a few years ago. She say's she loves her husband, but is not (IN LOVE) with him. What do I do??? HELP!!!

2007-12-28 07:25:16 · 28 answers · asked by Aiden S. 1

We've been together about 7 months. He's always done his own laundry, cooking, etc. and has never expected me to do anything for him. Sometimes I offer to cook for him, because I like doing "old fashioned" type stuff to take care of my man, it's just who I am :-)

So, he doesn't have a washer and dryer in his apartment but I do. I offered to let him do his laundry at my place, and he did a couple of times. He did all of the loading and folding himself. Then one time he was busy, and I offered to do it for him (I really didn't mind).

A couple of days ago he brought his laundry over. I saw it sitting on the floor and said "Is that your laundry?" He said, "Yeah, I brought it for you to do," with a big smile on his face. I said "What, am I your b*tch now?" And he said "Yeah, you're my b*tch!" This was all said in a very joking manner, we joke like that all the time and we both laughed.

I'm going to do it for him, and honestly I don't mind. But AM I being his b*tch?

2007-12-28 07:25:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

between beautiful,hot,gorgeous,pretty,sexy,and cute? do you use different terms depending on how attractive the girl is? or do they all mean the same thing?

2007-12-28 07:22:26 · 16 answers · asked by pickles11119 3

we were in love and I am older (alot older) and now I dont know how to get over these feelings. They are real and I hurt alot please help

2007-12-28 07:20:21 · 4 answers · asked by j 1

I have a situation I am in with a very close friend of mine. I suspect he likes me romantically but I'm not sure. I don't want to make him uncomfortable by asking him upfront. He's kind of shy about these kinds of things. I don't want to ruin our beautiful friendship by asking him if he likes me as more than a friend, when in reality he could just think I am a cool girl to hang around with. He tells everyone, including his mother, that I am his 'best friend' or that we are really close. He seems to genuinely enjoy being around me. People are starting to tease me and I am really confused! I really care about him and I am a little afraid to examine my own feelings because my heart has already begun to skip a beat when he shows up at my door or his name shows up on my phone, which has become more frequent recently. I've never been in this situation before. I really need some advice! I don't want to ruin the love we already feel for each other by confusing it for something else.

2007-12-28 07:17:14 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda77 2

Complete : As u talk about everything , even about sports or fashion cause remember , conversation is a two sided activity!

Honest : cause u won't hide truth from ur partner , u will always be grateful cause she/he accepted u with all ur shames , weiredos things u think about or feel like !

So , how often do u have such conversations ... ?

Are u willing to do it , or try to escape it all the time -reasons may vary- ?

Cheers everyone !

2007-12-28 07:16:51 · 9 answers · asked by Haitham Emad 7

2007-12-28 07:14:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 years and lived together for about 4 years. We have talked about the possiblity of marriage. But i am unsure of the whole relationship at times because we have a problem communicating. I cant talk to him about finances, relationships, or business without me or him catching an attitude. But on the other hand we complement each other very well and have a great time togehter (mainly because when we are together we are never sober). Should i be concerned about the possiblity of marriage if we have a hard time communicating now? And what will happen when we stop drinking and smoking together all the time? Most of the time it is just fun and games, even though our sex life is just okay. And now we are at the point where we are both looking to start businesses, but it is so hard for me to talk to him about his business without him becoming defensive? But overall i would give our relationship a 7 out of 10.

Any advice?

2007-12-28 07:13:56 · 7 answers · asked by Gamergrl 1

2007-12-28 07:11:55 · 21 answers · asked by jojo 1

Less than a hour before he said that I asked him if he loved me and i said how much on a 1-10 scale and he said i love u so much it would have 2 be a 15! But that confuses me because right after he said that he wasn't a hug person you can break up with me on myspace he changed his relationship status to single and moved me down on his top! Does that mean he broke up with me or is about to? Sorry that was to questions please answer them both! thanks

2007-12-28 07:06:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do nice, sweet,shy, flirty guys liked to be hugged by the girl that likes them and how do u leave them wanting for more?

2007-12-28 06:56:16 · 19 answers · asked by GenGen 2