My bf and I have been together about 7 months, and everything is fantastic. But his birthday is coming up, and he asked me for a menage a trois. I'm a little leery, bc I know friends whose relationship has been ruined by trying it. I talked to him and voiced my fears. He said he's more interested in seeing me be intimate with another woman, then he is in having sex with anyone else. He also said he's tried it before with an ex-gf (like, 7 years ago), and that it was a lot of fun but it didn't change things between them and it wasn't something he wanted all the time. It would be a one-night-only thing. He tells me I'm the only one he wants to be with, and I believe him. He almost has me convinced.
What do you think? Should I indulge his fantasy? Or will he look at me differently/lose respect for me? Will I feel differently about him?
(I'm 26 and he's 29, if that matters).
2007-12-28
02:20:34
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