Singles & Dating - 28 December 2007

Out of no where, the relationship of 9 months with my boyfriend has suddenly kind of stopped in its tracks. I am just wondering, where does the love go?

(and please no perverted answers...)

2007-12-28 01:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley Ward 3

my boyfriend and i have been friends for nearly a decade (he is my best friend in the world) and i love him like mad. we have been dating for 4 months now. we have been talking about moving back to our hometown (montreal) together in a couple of years. i am so happy in this relationship, but im afraid moving out together will ruin it. i already told him i think we should get a two bedroom so we can atleast have our own 'space' to retreat to, as hes a bit of a pig (even though he tries!) and im pretty tidy, plus i like to have my own free time away from him every now and then. is there anything i should know or consider before jumping into this? anybody in long term relationships have an advice for me on how to make it last?

2007-12-28 01:58:18 · 3 answers · asked by creepout 2

2007-12-28 01:57:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

or is it just too mills and boon ??

2007-12-28 01:56:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I;m confused,it makes me scared that i might not be able to get over my broken heart?

2007-12-28 01:54:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to this guy a lot lately
and I told him today that I cant skate
so he offered to teach me
and we're going to the skating rink on monday
i am so excited that he asked me
and excited to learn how to skate finally
lol
and i know he's excited to go
why am i nervous to go?
it will be our first time with it being just the two of us
we are not 'going out'
or 'boyfriend and girlfriend'
any tips to avoid any awkwardness?

2007-12-28 01:51:41 · 23 answers · asked by Katers 2

I had an ex bf that forced himself to have sex with me when i was 17yrs old that was last yr n I didnt bled, but I was a virgin

2007-12-28 01:51:06 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

Is it wrong to break up with a guy because he has low confidence. He is always pouting and I can tell he is comparing himself to my ex boyfriends all the time. He keeps thinking little of himself. I felt bad at first and tried to help, but now its just annoying. He is always quite and it sorta ruins my fun. Would it be wrong for me to break up with him because of it?

2007-12-28 01:50:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Boys did you buy lingerie for your girl and was it hot or not, what'll you do if she returns it.

2007-12-28 01:49:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my best friend broke up with her longest bf of 2 years about 3 months ago. she was really sad and it hit her badly, which is how anyone would be in that situation. we just got into college (we are 16). i noticed this really hot guy and we had a lot of eye contact, and i thought maybe something would happen. he would approach me, but i realised whenever he did he would be a little too touchy feely (put his hand around my waist, carress my shoulder etc). i also heard rumours that he was trying to get with other girls, and that many other girls were interested in him. so i lost interest, because a player isnt my type of guy. then my best friend phones me and says she likes him and he tried to kiss her. i told her that he was slightly flirtatious and i didnt think he had the right interests. she got mad at me and ignored me, and i didn;t know what to do becayse i knew she wouldnt tell me about anything else that happened with him if i was pesmistic. so i shunned my previous feelings aside,

2007-12-28 01:41:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever he is around his friends and I at the same time he's a COMPLETELY different person. He pokes jokes at me (sometimes incredibly rude ones), he swears a lot (he RARELY swears around me), and he just seems so much more of a "manly man".
Whenever he's around just me, he's a kind-hearted, good natured, perfect man. I understand that men feel like they need to make a good impression in front of their friends, but he's 24 years old! It's like he does a complete 180 whenever he's around his friends. It almost makes me not want to hang out with him and his friends anymore.
Also, the people he hangs out with aren't good at all. They always encourage him to cheat (which he assures me that he would never), and they all cheat on their girlfriends.
I just don't know what to do -- his friends have been around much longer than I have, and he's the love of my life... but I can't stand his attitude when he's around his friends, and I really think that they are bad influences on him. Help!?

2007-12-28 01:39:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

busy shedules make the day exhausting and sometimes we get upset due to lack of peace of mind and overexertion.
It leads to stress.
what to do ?

2007-12-28 01:38:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-28 01:38:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been good friends with this guy for 8 yrs. We've always had a thing for each other but due to other relationships weve never acted on it. Recently though while he was deployed in Iraq, we started some sort of online realtionship talking everyday and decided to try something when he came home. When he got home things seemed to be going ok. We had sex right away for the first time shortly after he retuned. The problem is that while it was nice, it was very quick. I felt really awkward around him and we avoided each other for about a week. When we finally met up again, everything seemed back to normal and he told me he had been avoiding me because of what happened and he felt weird. Well we ended up doing it again that night, and again this time, it wasnt any better! So now things are back to being awkward again. I really care about this person and would like a relationship, but dont know what to think. Is he just using me or does this sorta thing really bother a guy that much?

2007-12-28 01:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

everytime i move on he suddely reappears how does he know

2007-12-28 01:30:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went on a few dates with a guy that seemed very nice and sweet and I was attracted to him. A few days ago I was round in place we started kissing and he led me to his bedroom.

He just seemed very clumsy and nervous. He was not good at foreplay and he ejaculated about a 1 minute after I masturbated him and his penis was very small. Then he tells me it usually takes him a good 20 minutes before he is ready to go again. We did not have intercourse, He said to me - "may I enter you" and it just seemed so wrong and cold. I just asked him to give me a back massage and that was it.

He really is a nice guy and he is 35 who has been in relationships before. But that episode really put me off and I am not sure if I even want to try again.
He keeps on messaging me and sending me texts. How do I tell him?

2007-12-28 01:26:25 · 12 answers · asked by raggyann 3

When do you know its just gone too far?

2007-12-28 01:22:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-28 01:16:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do you do if you walk in on youre bf making out with one of youre best friends???

ive dated matt for about a year, i think. ON/OFF!
but now it seems like its changed everything, and i have no idea what to do?

what to say to either of them?
belive them; wen they say they wer drunk?
and idk wat to do on NEW YEARS either!?????

2007-12-28 01:11:33 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-28 00:57:08 · 15 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

2007-12-28 00:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by icy_blur 1

My boyfriend is deeply in love with me. But I fall in and out of love with him, and I don't feel comfortable around him. I am young and I don't feel ready for true love. I can't sleep or eat because I worry about how I'm making the wrong decision by staying with him. He has come to visit me (he lives 100s miles away) and I don't want to see him. Should I break up with him? And should I do it while he is still in town or over the phone after he goes home? Please respond soon because I have to see him today.

2007-12-28 00:12:02 · 25 answers · asked by ilovecoffee22 1

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, Corspe Bride, and the new Sweeney Todd. He likes Musicals, does this mean he is gay?

2007-12-28 00:10:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK so this is 5 diffrent hotties and we all have deffrent stories so dont think im messed up... im 5 people eaach totaly diffrent

2007-12-28 00:02:46 · 3 answers · asked by Hot Mamma 1