my best friend broke up with her longest bf of 2 years about 3 months ago. she was really sad and it hit her badly, which is how anyone would be in that situation. we just got into college (we are 16). i noticed this really hot guy and we had a lot of eye contact, and i thought maybe something would happen. he would approach me, but i realised whenever he did he would be a little too touchy feely (put his hand around my waist, carress my shoulder etc). i also heard rumours that he was trying to get with other girls, and that many other girls were interested in him. so i lost interest, because a player isnt my type of guy. then my best friend phones me and says she likes him and he tried to kiss her. i told her that he was slightly flirtatious and i didnt think he had the right interests. she got mad at me and ignored me, and i didn;t know what to do becayse i knew she wouldnt tell me about anything else that happened with him if i was pesmistic. so i shunned my previous feelings aside,
2007-12-28 01:41:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i tried to be enthusiastic about it, because i still wanted to watch out for her because i knew she was still hurt about breaking up with her old bf and might have been a little blind because of that. she tells me she's met up with him, and acts natural about it. i knew things were still slightly cold between us, so i talked to her and when we got closer she said that she'd kissed him loads of times. and i said i was happy for her and i said so when you next seeing eachother and she goes it isnt a relationship she doesnt think it will happen. im just suprised she's allowing the guy to use her like that?! am i being too old fashioned? i told her that i dont just kiss a guy like that and she went 'i only kissed him i didnt give him my bloody soul'. should i keep warning her or should i like she says liven up a little???
2007-12-28 01:45:28 · update #1
Your friend's view about kissing a guy as "no big deal" is not right.Don't ever discuss on this topic with her.She likes him and will eventually go for everything with that guy.She sounds very cheap as regards her relationship with the boyis concerned.It's unacceptable/unethical.
2007-12-28 01:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
loosen up...show him wat u got...do something u wouldnt do normally show him that sesxy body of yours and tell him to eat his heart out...tease him to the max
2007-12-28 09:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by oykarumba7 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm....what is the question?
2007-12-28 09:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋