Is it wrong to break up with a guy because he has low confidence. He is always pouting and I can tell he is comparing himself to my ex boyfriends all the time. He keeps thinking little of himself. I felt bad at first and tried to help, but now its just annoying. He is always quite and it sorta ruins my fun. Would it be wrong for me to break up with him because of it?
2007-12-28 01:50:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, do what you think you should do! Do what makes you happy! If your not happy, the relationship will never work.
2007-12-28 01:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tanya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not. However, if you leave you only comfirm his feelings. It's a double edge sword. On one hand you have this insecure guy, and on the ohter you have the reasons he's insecure. You haven't said anything about making him feel like he's #1 in your life. Is there a reason why he feels this way? Can you honestly say you haven't played a role (no matter how small or lagre) in his insecure feelings? If your answer is No, and there's nothing you've done, then I say shake him off and start fresh.
2007-12-28 02:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by true -woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not a foul reason. in case you lose thoughts for somebody then you could not help it. i've got broken up with a guy till now with the aid of fact i needed thus far somebody new. We did the comparable element each and every weekend and in no way did something exciting so I have been given ill of it, broke up with him and located somebody that grow to be extra exciting to be with.
2016-11-25 22:28:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not and from now on I'm gonna act like you any girl I date that needs constant reassurance that she's pretty or looks good I'm gonna drop because they keep thinking so poorly of themselves,but mostly because it's annoying.
2007-12-28 02:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by ogrething2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a guy that has confidence and self-esteem is the greatest. You don't want to be a baby-sitter for a guy. Be with someone who is assertive and decisive. Harder to find then you think. He has to be assertive not an egotistical jerk.
2007-12-28 02:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by missprissy1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how he responds to corrective feedback. If he's determined to keep living his "pity party" then, yeah, I'd say he's not a fit for you.
But if he's willing to take your input and change, and he's otherwise a decent guy, then stick it out for a while.
2007-12-28 01:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not his wife, so you're in no way obligated to continue dealing with behavior you find untenable. That is as good a reason to break up as any.
2007-12-28 01:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong; he'll just bring you down. I had a friend like that and I had to cut the ties because it just gets old!
2007-12-28 01:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't cause that will just bring him down, you shld have tried to help him instead of trying to bring his confidence lower
but hey you know it's not too late to help him now :]
2007-12-28 01:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!That'll just be mean and he'll hate you for it.Instead,stop talking about your exes so much.It's really annoying
2007-12-28 02:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by Coco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋